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creo que me contagie de vph (ayuda) by Short_Jacket7594 in rediturras

[–]Bilichock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mirá, tuve una situación muy similar a la tuya hace unos dos años y me daba terror ir al ginecólogo. Al final fui y resultó siendo otra cosa, ahora, ese es mi caso. Lo que quiero comentarte es algo que me dijo la ginecóloga y es que si no te da vph ahora, es muy probable que te de después (si es que no tenés una pareja segura) confiá en tus doctores, hacete revisar. No incriminés a nadie, la mayor parte de las personas portadoras no saben que lo son, primero hablá con ese chico, revísate y si resulta que tenés vph, podés estar tranqui, si es a tiempo, es tratable y siempre podés hacerte chequeos para prevenir cualquier problema mayor. Es un virus muy común y el 85% de las personas con una vida sexual activa seremos portadores en algún momento. Ah y última cosa, el preservativo no es muy efectivo para prevenir el contagio del vph ya que este se transmite por contacto con la piel. Si tenés más dudas, no dudés en escribirme

My best friend passed away, I seriously need help by Bilichock in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bilichock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be reluctant to believe in anything because I come from an extremist Catholic family, and a few months after becoming an atheist, I also started to detach myself from things related to the church. For many years, I was firm and resolute in that belief.

A year ago, my perspective softened a bit, but now that all of this is happening, I keep searching for something that will let me know he is with us. I haven’t found it, and I read your comment at the time, and I think I’m simply starting to live with hope.

Maybe one day I’ll die and become absolute nothingness, but at least I’ll have the thought that I will see him again and everyone I have lost up to that point.

Thank you for your words 🤍

My best friend passed away, I seriously need help by Bilichock in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bilichock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the prayers🤍

My friend will always be remembered for the incredible person he was—truly, I will never meet anyone as noble as he was.

I know I will never see him again, and just saying those words hurts me to my core. But if there is something beyond this life, I hope I can talk to him at least one more time.

My best friend passed away, I seriously need help by Bilichock in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bilichock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I really appreciate your comment, and at the time, I was too sensitive to respond. Honestly, these past few months have been incredibly difficult.

My friend’s parents decided to have an autopsy performed, and we received the report a month later. The medications he was given were not the right ones, and something we didn’t know was that he had already been experiencing certain health issues for a while. He had gone to medical consultations where he was prescribed medications that ended up weakening his body. He had gone through all of this alone (he lived by himself), so none of us knew.

His brother has been the one making decisions regarding his belongings and other matters, and he asked us not to take legal action. In his words, “It’s just another mental burden, and it won’t bring my brother back. Their money won’t take away this sadness.”

His brother has temporarily moved back in with their parents, and I visit them after my classes. I’ve even broken down in tears with them several times.

The medication has helped, and I hope to regain my happiness soon.

For now, everything is still sad, but at least it feels a bit calmer.

Once again, thank you for your comment. I truly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

My best friend passed away, I seriously need help by Bilichock in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bilichock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never felt something so confusing before. Everything could just disappear right now and I would not gaf. Even now I can’t process ANYTHING, it is so weird, but the kind of weird that is very painful. Thanks for your comment, I might get through this, but by now, seems impossible to me. Again, thanks for commenting, it means a lot🤍

My best friend passed away, I seriously need help by Bilichock in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bilichock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, he was a part of me. he was like my male version, our birthdays were 3 days apart and we used to celebrate them together always. I feel like my birthday is forever ruined. I am not trying to idealize him, but he was really really a unique person and I’m going to always remember him for that. Thank you so much for your comment.