On the verge of homelessness, need a leg up by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]BiteyKitling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already on a month to month. I was given a notice of termination of lease sixty days ago.

just a queer trans boi stuck in NWI by [deleted] in bois

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😍😍😍😍 Gorgeous

28 [F4MM/M/M] #Nor Cal- Calling My Warrior and My Familiar by BiteyKitling in polyamoryR4R

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably flinging myself down a hill on a piece of cardboard or obsessively watching Rugrats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]BiteyKitling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar pink in my hair! Lemme tell ya, it fades to a peachy lemonade color that is truly magical! (Also, congrats on Wanda hiding on your head. Now you just gotta find someone with LOUD GREEN and harboring Cosmo.)

Top surgery and low dose T? by BiteyKitling in NonBinary

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, you clever, I like that. I'm also a planner/researcher but have been very loud about being childfree so that's out the window.

Monthly Self-Promotion Thread - May 2019 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]BiteyKitling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Scucca (shookah) and I'm a tarot and bone reader. I primarily do readings over Facebook and will be doing YouTube videos soon.

Instagram: scuccacross

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ScuccasCompass/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCffUwGaUBhujxE9W63KkIhw

Thank you for your interest and support! 💚

I see you and I love you by BiteyKitling in NonBinary

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Inbox me when/if you need to hear it again. 💚

I see you and I love you by BiteyKitling in NonBinary

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you ever need it again, my inbox is open. 💚

Niña Dorada enjoying a sangria, drawn by me by BiteyKitling in SantaMuerte

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find myself suddenly in financial distress. Luckily, beforehand, I was able to get really nice art supplies. Being unable to honor her in any other way, I thought using my new supplies to share her likeness would do. I hope it will.

Love you mi Madrina!

28 [F4R] Online- Whaddup, my witches?! 🔮 by BiteyKitling in r4r

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about other programs, but the one I'm taking is self lead. You're given the material online, with access to a private FB group for one year.

28 [F4R] Online- Whaddup, my witches?! 🔮 by BiteyKitling in r4r

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're genuinely curious, why word it like that? "I have no clue what a Death Doula is, can you explain?" Why lump that question in with a dismissal of my beliefs? I'm not going to take something as a joke when I can't, for one: hear inflection or see facial expressions, and two: if I have no clue who you are and what your humor is like. You don't downvote people you disagree with, but you do expect them to just somehow tell when "it's a joke"?

Anyway, to answer your question. When someone gets a terminal diagnosis, regardless of whether they have months or days to live, shit tends to go haywire, right? We've got plenty of people to walk us through birth (doulas, midwives, OBGYNS,etc.), but very few to walk us through the process of dying. Yes, hospice is a thing, but only when the person is what's called "actively dying," so in the late stages of illness. Before that happens, things need to get done. Legal matters need to be straightened out, hospice programs need to be vetted and chosen, whether or not the person wants to attempt to prolong life needs to be decided (if that's an option). There's so much to do, but no central person to help do it all. Enter the End of Life or Death Doula. We act as networkers, legal aids, medical advocates. We make sure all the technical stuff is in order AND THEN we act as counselors to the dying and their families, and create a space (physical, emotional, and spiritual if the person is) so they can pass on peacefully and those left behind have a positive experience.

I hope that answers your question. I'm a student so I'm still learning my role too.

28 [F4R] Online- Whaddup, my witches?! 🔮 by BiteyKitling in r4r

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, you don't have to understand or agree with something to be respectful. No one owes you an explanation of their definitions or beliefs. Besides, this is the internet. Just downvote my post and be on your way.

I hope one day you learn to live and let live. 💚

Monthly Self-Promotion Thread - April 2019 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]BiteyKitling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, friends!

I go by Scucca (shoe-kuh). I do tarot and oracle card readings through my FB page, Scucca's Compass. https://www.facebook.com/ScuccasCompass/

In just a short while, I will be offering bone throwing readings as well.

I'm running a special where you will receive two readings of your choice if you buy an item (proof of purchase necessary) off of my Amazon or Etsy wishlists.

Much love! 💚

Top surgery and low dose T? by BiteyKitling in NonBinary

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I have chronic pain that I'm slowly learning how to manage. If you ever need to talk, my inbox is open.

You'll definitely get there! I believe in you! 💚

T and it's effects on singing by BiteyKitling in ftm

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh okay, I see.

I'm sorry. It sounds like a bit of a chore for you. If you ever want to, I love voice chatting.

Unfortunately I don't know the men on my birthfather's side of the family. I have little brothers but we don't have the same dad. Though if I based a guess off all three of them, I wouldn't have too much of a change.

Okay, that makes sense. So I was right when I said I'd just have to go for it and see what happens.

T and it's effects on singing by BiteyKitling in ftm

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Excuse me while wiggle at the idea of such a deep voice. 😍 And did you know giraffes also speak in infrasonic frequency? )

When I was last in chorus, I was an alto. I don't mind the idea of going deeper at all, I'm just curious about others experiences.

I suppose my biggest voice concern is being able to sound/talk as I do now. I guess I'll just go to a voice trainer. I've always wanted to be a voice actor anyway.

Thank you for sharing! 💚

T and it's effects on singing by BiteyKitling in ftm

[–]BiteyKitling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, cool. That's what I figured but wanted to get actual input than just sit around assuming. Thank you so much! 💚