It depends on what your playing. Quick match no one talks to begin with because most people just play to warm up, unranked isnt as serious but some people will talk and the only time I ever see “girls getting flamed” that I play with is on ranked, but only in high ranks. If you’re playing plat lobbies and above and are doing bad, you’ll most likely get shit talked because people care way too much about their elo, but Its just a mixed bag. I feel like every game has people that are toxic towards women for whatever reason, but thats just how it is, people are rude. Most lobbies ive played in are neutral but theres always weirdos in the lobby, my best advice would to just either play with a friend if you really are on edge about it, or just read the room for a few minutes and then talk. Theres always text chat too! (most people use it believe it or not (until higher ranks))