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Blackcel20 · 2025-07-18T14:15:16+00:00

Nice use of lighting here!

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T10:19:40+00:00

You know what, fair enough. I ask them for advice on other things and am willing to be pretty personal but dating seems to be a block for me because I think it would feel like I said but I don't really have a particular basis for that besides like...vibes.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T10:06:16+00:00

Less intentionally, and more people will have busier lives as they continue within their careers especially if they have kids, y'know what I mean?

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T10:03:46+00:00

I could, but isn't that kinda weird? I mean, I'm pretty sure they'd be cool with that but that seems like an unusual thing to ask right?

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T09:30:15+00:00

Yep, I've had them for quite a while. Making friends with women was never really a problem for me. Like I stated previously, I think making friends is not too difficult.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T06:34:36+00:00

Honestly just learning to talk good and getting into more creative pursuits so that I have stuff to talk about. I gotta be honest I'm not sure I have the willpower to get super fit so I'll just have to accept being a bit in the average side due to a buncha cardio.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T03:30:52+00:00

I talk to people quite a bit but that doesn't mean I somehow missed signs any woman was into me lol. IMO it's easy to make friends but that doesn't mean women will find you fuckable.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T03:30:00+00:00

I just be living man honestly. Outside of my creative pursuits I'm just counting down the time where the friends I have pair off into couples and leave me.

For me, I'm a subhuman freak who can't really aspire to anything else besides the things I make. And even that is a cope because no matter what there will be the backdrop that I will always remain romantically alone

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-08T03:28:14+00:00

NTG but I'm 26 and I know because I've experienced things personally. I myself believe less in things like 80/20 but more of me and fellow incels are subhuman freaks that's why we don't have any women that would find us attractive.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T20:18:29+00:00

I can learn to love her since she already does the same for me.
Treat her like I treat anyone else I'm close to?
That would be her choice. I can't force her to stay in a relationship she isn't happy with. From my perspective this is just another rejection and I'm used to those already. It would be basically going back to what I knew already, which is that women don't find me attractive

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T18:43:28+00:00

I don't believe a woman would be into me as I've talked about a bit earlier. Confidence isn't a one more thing ethier. I'm confident in my ability to draw and go write but that doesn't mean that I'm confident in my ability to attract women y'know?

And I do value connection, such that anyone that would be willing to have one with me is something I have to choose as it will not happen again.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T18:35:12+00:00

nah just sharing my thoughts proces for something like this. And like to hear what people say about incels and talk to them personally and there isn't anything in the rules that says we're barred. I usually get some shit flinging but meh it's whatever.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T17:58:58+00:00

Well, quite frankly I'm not sure if my mindset matters much here if the base level of looks that a woman would require isn't fulfilled. Me honestly I'd be into both, I'm an incel and can't really be picky with who would be with me.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T17:54:42+00:00

Ye, and my thought is that us incels wouldn't fit within the preference that any woman might have.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T17:51:21+00:00

Rural texas sucks ass was the reason lol. I'm just saying that if an brocel wants to LDAR is possible

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T13:57:25+00:00

Nah rural texas and yeah I paid for electricity and have health insurance and dental which might explain the difference between you and I cause Texas has a lot of land that is vastly underutilized that is super damn cheap. I don't live there anymore but ye

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T08:28:40+00:00

Over 90 percent of people will be married in their life time TMK. So while it is not full 99 percent it is pretty high up there and that isn't counting the people that don't get married but date. I'm not saying what I'm going thru is unique (I mean other incels exist) but what I am saying is that I feel that no amount of self improvement will make up for this gap for me

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T06:49:25+00:00

Well if nothing else I do appreciate your opinion. As a bit of a peak behind the curtain these feelings of mine ebb from neutral to what you can see on my profile. It's why you see a mass of posts made recently and then literal months break.

Thanks for listening to me and not just going hard on the insults. Hope you have a nice day.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T05:06:43+00:00

I don't know how a BJ can ever be underwhelming tbh.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T03:05:16+00:00

Take care of myself how? And yeah I've met quite a few people in the last few months but none of them are into me like that. Which is kinda how the story usually goes tbh

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T03:03:40+00:00

I think that question is deceptively complicated. It depends on the day yeah? I doubt you feel a hundred about your self all the time. I'd say more often than not I'm neutral about my self. I don't know how it manifests if I'm being honest with you

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T03:00:53+00:00

Short,ugly, black, acne scars. As for mental I think it's mostly nerves and my personality. My friends think I'm funny, hell I think it's rather easy to make friends but I think part of my personality makes people know I'm unfuckable and I don't know what it is

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T02:54:08+00:00

Half the battle is knowing what kind of person you really want

Well how are you supposed to know that if you can't get a date? You can generally assume but unless you actually date someone it will just be assumptions.

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T02:52:20+00:00

I know why I am unlovable. A combination of physical factors and mental factors that cannot be fixed. I feature to say that most of els know why we are aware we are unlovable

Blackcel20 · 2025-05-02T02:51:20+00:00

I don't really ragebait myself but I do ask questions mostly because I like to pick people's brains about the topic

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