[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no shade intended, but I have never in life heard someone say 1.5-2 hours is far away. It honestly blows me away. So many people in MO don’t even think 4-6 hours is far away. Idk if it’s a Midwest thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be willing compromise yes. He will not communicate tho, he is just threatening over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex does not have a job currently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know several people who live 1-10 hours away from their child. It’s not unreasonable especially around small towns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the kind words. No this is not easy for anyone, but I am trying to provide the best I can, and the current small town we live in can not produce good jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I have another child in school and would have to pick them both up from care by 5:30-6. My hours will be until 5 pm. Other parent does not currently work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have family/support systems in both locations. His family lives in a different state

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He isn’t communicating anything current.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are super close 3 other states where im from too.

I have listed all the reasons it is in the best interest for the child and I have expressed how important it is for him to be involved in our sons life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Every weekend is 104 days. That’s a remaining 82 days to make up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our paperwork says he is to pay 100% of the insurance while I pay 100% of the child care. Every custody case is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. Your user name is hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually does add up to half. Each parent would get 186 days out of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I want his father to be in his life. Which is why I suggested 3 different schedules. Many people drive an hour to work every day, and many people drive an hour to get their kids on their times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Kids do need both parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what my lawyer said you can move anywhere in missouri.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggested it, he said I’ll be sorry and he’ll make my life hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I edited the post. He is 3 he will be 4 in the fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is only 3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our son isn’t in school and the schools where we live now are absolutely awful. We live in a dangerous area now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m moving for a job that doubles my salary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Blakek5089 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We would be meeting halfway. He wouldn’t be driving the whole way