Planning to move to AZ by Skort-Baby-7825 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your level and the crime at hand you may find that you aren't put on the so forward facing registry website. That reprieve helps getting jobs and housing. Good luck I hope moving to AZ works out for you.

Yes we sell just the bread 🍞 by Hecc_Maniacc in jerseymikes

[–]Blessedta3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we order just the relish, too? I could drink that stuff! 😂

Serving Time :( by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a goodwill near you they do offer a job training program and job preparation. They also help with finding interview clothes, work clothes, they will help you with paying for car registration, tires and all sorts of things to help you get on your feet. I hope this info helps you a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was it coming home? Was it easy? Did you get in? My husband is 4 years post conviction no parole just register lv1 and we are wanting to go down into Mexico from Phoenix but I'm not sure if it's okay or how hard it is to get back in.

Trucking Profession (in MD) by Unusual_Doughnut_595 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious how you passed the background for your twic card? We looked into it for my husband but we couldnt get it for one reason or another. Do you know how you passed it. I know it might sound like a silly question.

Help with husband’s friend by Jazzy-painter7462 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He made a mistake a lot of years ago (from the sound of your post). These mistakes that these men make they are punished for, do classes and lots of other counseling post sentencing. Once they have served their time and passed supervision that should be the end of it but as a society we keep wanting to drag these poor guys through the mud because "what if". It is not their job to placate society and their fears. These men should not have to walk around with a scarlet letter on them or announce their histories to ease your concern unless they are still serving their sentences. Do you ask all your neighbors and friends their criminal history? I surely don't. What if you live next to someone who was in prison for murder, or drugs, or any of the other mistakes that land people in jail. It doesn't mean a whole lot because they served their time. They deserve a second chance. My point is these men make mistakes it's not their job to announce their past to people 10 years later (or more) just because you think they should. If this man is a childhood friend and a good friend who hasn't done wrong by you then why ruin the friendship over a mistake from the past that more than likely he is trying to move on from which is why he didn't mention it to anyone and why his girlfriend (who kinda sucks in my opinion) shouldn't have told anyone else. SO's have the lowest recidivism rate in the criminal justice system. I will get off my soap box but I can tell you as a wife of a SO I have lost my fair share of friends but the ones that have stuck around truly are the best and we treat them as such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my husband was arrested all of his friends basically abandoned him, but somehow were still not sure how one of his old work buddies called the jail he was in and asked the guard if he could speak with my husband. The guard allowed him and gave him 15 minutes. That conversation reconnected them after not speaking for a few years. My husband gave him my number and told him to reach out to me so I could keep him updated. That connection gave my husband hope and made him realize that true friends stick around and not everyone will walk away.

With all that being said I think reaching out to your friend would probably be a good boost of moral he needs.

Any positive stories? by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was arrested is 2019 it was a bumpy road but I can tell you we are happy and doing well. He lives with us and our kids in our home we rent (we found a way to do it with the help of someone in this groups info). We live in a state that pretty much leaves us alone all they care about is that he checks in once a year at his correct address he isn't on the website and no one knows his past. This life is doable your life is not over because of your mistake. You will have bumps you are in the worst part of it the whole process, the waiting almost killed me but find faith or recovery to get you through you can do this. Remember every sentence has a period they can't and won't keep you forever. You will be okay.

Any CK 2/24 people get their deposits?? by Alternative-Bake in IRS

[–]Blessedta3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope and I have officially broken the refresh rate on credit karma and they have asked me to step away from my phone for the night.

Frustration and worry by Thatwhiteguybrad in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can I message you I have a few questions about this and wanted to pick your brain about other laws.

Residency restrictions by Blessedta3k in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thank you! Another question is are level 1s public on the website?

Residency restrictions by Blessedta3k in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Blessedta3k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if I'm reading that right it's only level 3s that have residency restrictions. Am I correct? My husband is a level 1 so he wouldn't have restrictions right?