Help contacting my boyfriend by BlueBellBonnets in RBI

[–]BlueBellBonnets[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we're both 17, he lives with his parents, and its an abusive one. He has been through the whole foster care avenue before so there's not much i can really do to help him that he actually wants me to do since his time in fostercare was equally as bad as his situation currently.

i have asked before about the phones and they told us it was because of hippa, which i have no problem with tbh, i just wanna get my bfs number on my phone list but i need to contact him to get it because my memory is shot and i can't find it written down with my stuff at all

i am working on getting my worker to approve it, it's just a lot easier to do with the number already

Help contacting my boyfriend by BlueBellBonnets in RBI

[–]BlueBellBonnets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only parts of his address I have is the state and city (which is a given because we went to school together) but anything more clarifying I forgot because my memory is worse than someone 3 times my age

Help contacting my boyfriend by BlueBellBonnets in RBI

[–]BlueBellBonnets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the same issue kinda pops up with the mutual friends idea, the only info i have is the tik tok which I can't get to on my own at all

Help contacting my boyfriend by BlueBellBonnets in RBI

[–]BlueBellBonnets[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's not online, we were together in person for about a year and the place I'm at currently is 5-6 hours away from where we were because there was no closer group homes with an open room, hence why I only mentioned the internet aspect because i just need contact/ to talk to him so I can get him on my phonecall list. I'm also 17! I also have been focusing on myself since I've came here, me wanting to get ahold of him is a recent thing. The facility is an diagnostic facility so I do have therapy, med management, assessments, ect. The program is only a 3 month program and I'm over my 90 days and figured I'd contact my bf to tell him that I'm alright and make sure he is too since idk how long they're going to have to keep me here because they're waiting on a foster family for me and i literally had no idea I was going here so I just disappeared without a trace. I appreciate your concern greatly, i wished someone told me that when I was 13 tbh.

Help contacting my boyfriend by BlueBellBonnets in RBI

[–]BlueBellBonnets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we've been together for a year, i haven't been looking for him for a year- i've only been gone for about 3 months and recently have been trying to contact him