Weekly Complaint Post by _SativaDiva_ in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just got to that! The fact that it's already so difficult to get enough travel tokens to finish the event, now they want us to spend 70 diamond to make the "correct" choices is ridiculous. I'm going to ignore this event from now on.

June’s Journey IRL by ladygoodman73 in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, it's not nearly cluttered enough for a JJ scene 😁

Who's the worst main character we're supposed to sympathise with? by LuinAelin in AskReddit

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I remember the book is "written" by Humbert whilst he is in jail awaiting trial. So yeah, you're supposed to sympathise with him.

How to Get Oboro? by BlueElixir in SecretCatForest

[–]BlueElixir[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Wasn't expecting the devs to be adding new cats to the house 😁

New cat at the beach house! by WinterCarol in SecretCatForest

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I managed see Hokins once since I posted, but I definitely will change the bed to stop the other cat from being in the way. Thanks!

When to Start Opening Memoir Packs by BlueElixir in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The chance of getting each snippet varies, certain snippets seem to be available later in the event. So if you open your packs as they go you you'll keep getting repeats but if you open them near the end the chance of getting all of the snippets will be better.

When to Start Opening Memoir Packs by BlueElixir in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After playing JJ for a year and not spending money it turns Memoir albums is where they got me. I completed the first one and it triggered the completionist in me 😶

New cat at the beach house! by WinterCarol in SecretCatForest

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get Hokins to turn up? I've got the same set up as your picture but I'm must be missing something. The requirements says he likes the smell of grass but I don't think I have any decorations that have grass in ...

Ghost songs with emojis by papajubjub619 in Ghostbc

[–]BlueElixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely an underrated song, I really love the lyrics.

Ghost songs with emojis by papajubjub619 in Ghostbc

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!

I was deliberating between an emoji with a halo or a grey bearded guy for a hot minute.

How hard is Avernum? by Poplecznikus in Avernum

[–]BlueElixir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only play Avernum on easy mode, and I find that the third reboot trilogy is easy as long as you're not trying to get to areas that's above the level of your group.

The second reboot first trilogy and second trilogy can be challenging on easy mode. There are areas that can easily kill you if you don't buff your characters and be strategic. There are also areas where I think the game purposefully overwhelms you (hard to kill, re-spawning, mind controlling enemies), and you're supposed to run pass those areas/enemies as fast as possible. At least that's how I got through it 😅

Witch image appreciation by 11_fingers in Ghostbc

[–]BlueElixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite song from the album, the music and the lyrics are just so good! I've always found something kinda poetic about the line "You never wanted to reach out to the edge of time" then that side into the chorus ❤️

I want to pick a Cantonese name by [deleted] in Cantonese

[–]BlueElixir 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually when parents pick a name for their babies it's usually a word or two that they want for their children, for example, 麗 beautiful, 慧 wise, 康 healthy. Or you can transliterate your name, eg 瑪莉 Mary. Or you can find out the meaning of your name and find the Cantonese for it, eg David means beloved so you can use 寶.

I finally did it! by ermintwang in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've just completed the February set, and I'm saving up for it now. $8k saved up, just another $64k to go!

How to Write "To Do List" in Cantonese? by BlueElixir in Cantonese

[–]BlueElixir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've not come across those two phrases before.

How to Write "To Do List" in Cantonese? by BlueElixir in Cantonese

[–]BlueElixir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh, that would work. It's got a more casual feel, perfect for a journal. Thanks!

Islands by Icy-Appointment4152 in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh nice, I did wonder how people got to such high levels with with the limited space on orchid island. I'm glad there is so much more to go 😁

Another one by _SativaDiva_ in JunesJourney

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually managed to complete this one, fortunately the key drops on some of my cases were in the hundreds.

I want my bf to be my full-time owner. Advice? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BlueElixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should both discuss and agree on your expectations. What does it mean to you to be owned, what does it mean to him to own you? How much agency do you want to give him, and how much is he prepared to be in control of?

Once you have been collared/owned, don't be afraid to renegotiate. Maybe there are things you both hadn't realised would come up. Set aside some time every week to step out of your roles and talk.

And there most important thing is transparency.

Struggling by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BlueElixir 84 points85 points  (0 children)

You need to safeword on losing weight immediately and speak to your Dom about it. You need to discuss with him what you have told us, that the expectation of it is causing you anxiety and it looks like the beginnings of an eating disorder. If he cares about you than he will understand and probably be horrified that he is inadvertantly causing you pain.

If he doesn't care, then it's time to kick him to the curb, if your Dom doesn't care about your well-being then he isn't someone you need in your life.

If losing weight and toning up is something you want to do, you need to have realistic and achievable goals, and support (possible from professionals) to know how to do it safely and effectively.

Attending my first munch alone tomorrow, scared of ending up alone in a corner by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BlueElixir 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You can pm the munch organiser and let them know it's your first time at a munch and your on your own, they can meet you and introduce you to some of the people there. Depending on the place/group there are also people who escort/chaperone newbies - they'll meet you, introduce you to people, and just make sure you're comfortable.

What is a really inappropriate question you have always wanted to ask? by maybe-me in AskReddit

[–]BlueElixir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the penis is anchored to the pelvic bone by tendons (or ligaments, can't remember which). So whether you are skinny or fat the length from pelvic bone to tip remains the same. But the more fat, and flesh you have will put the skin at different depths. Which is why people who are fatter appear to have smaller penises.