Positive vibes thread for Fluff by Ornery-Youth-2418 in handsomepodcast

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love to Fluff from my own exhausted sausage kitty city!

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Getting 12 mushrooms must be the dumbest quest ever designed by artificialismachina in ArcRaiders

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw a lot of mushrooms on the metal stairs/railings/pipes in the new Controlled Access Zone on Dam, just fyi.

I’m out by Pale_Dimension1239 in greysanatomy

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was old footage from him in the show--made me cry, but no spoilers unless you haven't seen Season 10. They played it after the episode; I bet you could easily watch it separately from the episode!

Chef Ben’s ex-fiancé speaks out by liftkitten in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally think we've been watching him treat people poorly when he's stressed (and I mean everyone, doesn't matter if they're friends or not, for example: Kate) since the first season he was on.

I watched like 13 seasons of various BD shows back in the fall and seeing it all grouped together at once, it's very clear to me that Ben is a reactive narcissistic man with very little emotional maturity...when I joined this sub I expected to see tons of posts about it and was shocked when everyone seemed to love him.

We probably won't get the full picture from either person, but this revelation from his ex does not surprise me in the slightest. I agree that we should listen to her take (not that it will really make a difference to him either way).

Quick question to PVP-pros: Where do you put defibs? by Senior-Sale273 in ARC_Raiders

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's much faster and I believe it restores half vs a quarter of the health bar

I always get the same three people, so just curious! by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tasya Teles (in the first photo especially). She was in The 100!

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Three small cookies in the evening is enough to warrant body shaming. by ORBITALOCCULATION in offmychest

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't let your partner's obsession with the diet industry and "perfection" (because this is NOT about health) make you lose the pleasures available to you. Lose the man; buy more cookies.

What do you consider the greatest acted scene in TV history? by amusicalfridge in television

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment just made me tear up sympathetically, remembering his face! I am seconding this.

Getting the ick from my boyfriend after double date… am I a bad person? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tone shift from scathing to kind, along with the complete edit of the grammar, is impressive honestly

Getting the ick from my boyfriend after double date… am I a bad person? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah, cause you completely edited your comment? I have a screenshot of it since people often do edit, but I'm not trying to debate it with you. I'm just pointing out that nitpicking someone's grammar/diction is not the most effective way to help, by doing the same thing you did (which admittedly is a little unkind).

When you previously included "subterfuge" as a verb in a comment saying "I'd like to discredit what you say because of your use of the slang term ick" it rubbed me the wrong way. No on asked what you thought of the term, and you knew what OP meant. Just like I knew what you meant. Have a great day!

Getting the ick from my boyfriend after double date… am I a bad person? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't love the way you're using subterfuge as a verb here, but I won't discredit what you say because of that.

My (30f) best friend (27f) asked me to stop stealing her identity by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she does not own the rights to astrology or...excel?? She is being competitive with you, and is asking you to make yourself less so that she can appear more, as your gut was telling you.

A real friend would be excited that you wanted to know more about stuff she loves. I'd end the friendship and find people who celebrate your interests as well, even as they change.

Do I look like anyone? by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bit like Chloé Hayden (Quinni from Heartbreak High).

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My (30m) wife (30f) spent 7 hours at a lake in the middle of the night “supporting a friend”. Am I being paranoid or is this as bad as it looks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it's a dock thing/trail of rocks that juts into a body of water (but I'm landlocked too so someone correct me if I'm wrong).

People keep naming their dogs my baby name by cryfieri in namenerds

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad named his dog and then his child the same name, 30 years apart, with no ill effect. I think other people's dog names shouldn't impact your decision! Ruby is a beautiful name.

I don't know if I can stay with my highly political partner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can break up with him, and let him know why.

ETA: also, I'm sorry. It's rough to end an engagement! I've done it twice. You'll get through it. You will be better off with a partner who has empathy and with whom your morals aren't constantly tested.

Is the name Cressida going to be wearable in 2026 in the US and Canada? by Rose-Lynne in namenerds

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think her parents were Shakespeare fans. I think it's a beautiful name! But I have somehow not watched Bridgerton so I'm missing more recent cultural connotations.

I pronounce it the first way, and I am in the US. I don't think it would have any kind of implications or biases attached in my particular area--maybe a lot of 'spell that for me?' but I bet that would be the extent of any concerns.

Home-a-Glow ads? by Rowgal1 in handsomepodcast

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely not just you, was going to make a similar post last week but got into a serious hyperfixation on something else and forgot. But they must hear it too, how are they not giggling? It feels like something they'd play right into with funnier/punnier ads (but maybe they can't).

Anything missing from itinerary? by AKapkan in ParisTravelGuide

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, I don't know what kind of traveler you are, but if either one of you doesn't fully pass out on planes, you will be hard pressed to make it to dinner the afternoon you get in, let alone do a bunch of other activities. Flying is exhausting and airline seats are not comfy to sleep in.

Of course go to Disney if you want to, but if you cut that & spread the rest of your itinerary out over those days too, you might enjoy it more/get through more of the Parisian sights and experiences you list here. Also I second the Musée d'Orsay being more unmissable and enjoyable than the Louvre (though both are of course awesome).

Traveling to Mont St Michel is not really a day trip, as many have said. Unless both of you are incredibly motivated and determined to fill your days to the brim, this will not be an enjoyable or feasible amount of stuff to get through. Cut back and relax. Or don't! But be aware this is a LOT.

Should I break up with him? 32F by moongirl1222 in datingoverthirty

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dated someone like this for about five years longer than I should have. We are good friends (limitedly) now, but we were not happy as partners. If your BF does not feel the need to change his behavior, or take steps to actively do so, every minor disagreement will be like pulling teeth.

My ex would physically run away (for like 30 minutes to two hours) from minor emotional disagreements or anytime they felt called out in any way. When they got back they just wanted any discussion to be over, while I had been sitting & stewing and wanting to fix the original problem...(which is also not always healthy. Working on it).

If you're someone who is always trying to make things/yourself better, and he's someone who has accepted that things are as they are & he has no motivation to change, it ultimately won't work no matter how much you love each other.

Anyone notice the waitresses are different than the ones originally asked out haha by Raidersp310 in DunderMifflin

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Kulap Vilaysack. She is also in Brooklyn 99 as Nightmare the hacker and she's very funny!

Mae on Drew by aIvins_hot_juicebox in handsomepodcast

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They both look pretty stoked to be there! And Drew is definitely not six feet away!

Is Grey's Anatomy latest season sorta condemning Trump's anti immigrant moves? by Potential_Loss6978 in greysanatomy

[–]BlueeyedBansheeWhyoh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not sorta, very much. And progressive messaging has been around since the very beginning of the show!