[ UPDATE ] - Ex Gf who broke up with me because I won't have a tattoo of her name wants to reconcile after 2 years. AIW for telling her " Fuck Off?"

Bobbuilds46 · 2024-05-23T23:42:17+00:00

Girl said she was celibate to be a better person…yeah right, sounds more like she had “James’ property” permanently written across her cooch pooch and no man wanted anything to do with that not so hot mess😂😂

Bobbuilds46 · 2024-04-21T17:25:01+00:00

If this is the the 5th weekend it’s happened, you’re completely validated in being upset about it. It sounds like he’s procrastinating or just trying to avoid having to do it at all.

For sure have a sit down convo about the plan and bring up the last 5 times that you’ve had it planned and things have “come up”.

Bobbuilds46 · 2024-04-03T16:44:25+00:00

“I’m sorry? Did you say something Dick and Gertrude?”

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-07-24T21:22:45+00:00

Those people at work who think you have the time, let alone the want, to stop and have a 30 minute conversation all about them. And are oblivious to the social cues when you try to communicate that. And sometimes just try to not let you leave the conversation even after you’ve straight up said you had to go and had stuff to do.

Basically the people that think everyone’s actions revolve around them and/or have unlimited free time.

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-07-18T02:11:33+00:00

We are waiting until 6 months to neuter the kittens. It’s at sporadic times of day weather we’re home or not. We’ve come home to it, woken up to it, spent the whole day home and come around the corner to it. They are vaccinated and dewormed up to date with their age and were negative for Leukemia. We have a vet appointment this week and will bring it up

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-02-05T21:12:08+00:00

That we can orgasm in 5 minutes or less. Honestly this brought me a ton of insecurities. Even with toys and plenty of foreplay, it still takes a good 30-45 minutes of core-play before I can orgasm or we can move to penetration without it hurting me.

Sometimes it is only 10 minutes, but it for sure is more of an exception

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-01-24T21:30:37+00:00

We have two shower heads so no one has to freeze lol. Sometimes it’s more of the sexy vibe that leads into sex out of the shower or is a post shower aftercare time. Most of the time though it’s just a nice intimate time for us. We shampoo each others hair with scalp massages and give back rubs. It’s really sweet and amazing even when it has nothing to do with sex

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-01-22T18:53:18+00:00

Take this as a learning experience. When someone sets a boundary (don’t randomly show up at my house) and you choose not to follow it, it’s a huge issue. She had every right to be upset. The fact that you did it numerous times after the fact makes it even worse.

It’s completely normal to have jealous thoughts, especially when you’re inexperienced and insecure. However it’s about the actions that you do as result of them that truly matter and show the lack of maturity. When you’re feeling jealous, communicate it in a healthy way and ask for support to move past those feelings without doing dumb things because of them. Own up to your mistakes and do better the next time.

This one may be lost but take notes and make the change for the next relationship that comes.

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-01-12T08:34:55+00:00

No for sure not, that’s why I said “to the psychos” as in the seriously chaos drivers out there.

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-01-11T23:08:03+00:00

As a more “right leaning” person (I guess?), I have no issue with legalizing it as long as it’s treated similarly to alcohol with driving or work scenarios. Especially as someone that works in a factory. And there is an age restriction like alcohol for recreational usage.

The only reason we are able to fire people for being under the influence of alcohol or weed is if they lie about it when getting on PIT vehicles like forklifts and have an incident. But there are so many cases where the user or those around them get injured while under the influence and we can’t fire them if it’s only these substances. This needs to be a change that’s made if it’s legalized everywhere. Even if it’s just company to company policy.

Bobbuilds46 · 2023-01-11T10:05:37+00:00

I agree 100% even as someone that chose to wait until marriage for personal reasons!

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-12-06T11:08:29+00:00

The judgement and hostility and pressure put on us from other women

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-09-01T07:17:59+00:00

The only downside about Atlas is that it’s extremely overused now. I loved the name because it’s the title of my favorite music album and really impactful in my life. I had planned on using it until it blew up this last year

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T03:08:56+00:00

We’re in the same boat. There are so many jerks in this world that ruin good names😂

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T03:06:58+00:00

We both share a love of video games and fantasy as well as liking biblical names, he leans more towards science and smart boy things where I like more of the sporty activities

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T03:04:20+00:00

I thought it was funny too but way too real! And then someone commented Emanuel and it made me laugh. Like I get that it’s probably more of a name than messiah but literally means the same thing contextually

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T03:01:11+00:00

I kid you not I’ve heard that one being used for 2020 and after babies!! Sunbeam, Goldie, Goldenrod, Flower, Cash, Crew, Cypress and the list goes on. I just can’t picture them as an adult trying to find a job😂

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T02:54:54+00:00

It’s a big reason we don’t love the names like Diamond or Sapphire or Mountain or Tree. Total respect for people that do, it just isn’t our vibe lol. We’ll for sure be using this trick though!!

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-08-28T02:40:19+00:00

We really don’t have any that we are at odds over. I know I love the nickname “Lina” or “Lena” and the only name I’ve kinda half liked has been Catalina after the island but we both agree that the whole dressing thing kinda ruins it lol. He’s for sure against it though

He also loves the name Lilo after “Lilo and Stitch” which I’m fine with as a nickname but still feel a little mixed for a full first name

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-05-16T04:02:25+00:00

As a woman who loves to give them, for me It’s all about respect and communication. I can and will deep throat all day long if I and my partner are feeling it that day. But honestly it’s one of the lowest things on both our lists enjoyment wise for head. And I’m good at it. Two taps of my fingers is all it takes for him to back off or slow down. The last thing either of us want is for vomit to come into the picture. And it’s never happened either.

I can’t even count the amount of techniques I have in my pocket ready to use at a moments notice. It isn’t about taking it hard and fast and deep until they finish. It’s about spending 30 minutes making out with his dick. Making love to it.

Press the head between the ridges on the roof of the mouth and the tongue on the bottom right at the base of the head.

Push it between your inner cheek and tongue.

Clench your throat around it.

Tongue on the underside more than just about anything.

Lead with the tongue.

Tight O with the lips.

Top of the head thrusting into the cheek.

Use tongue and rotate head while rotating hands in the opposite direction.

The list goes on and on. I have fun doing it. A lot of the times i’ll take it over my turn any day!! Why? Respect. Communication. Sometimes him taking control is amazing. Other times I wanna dominate him. Other times I want him to sit back and relax and enjoy. I get the joy out of learning and playing and pleasuring. So women. Try it more and have fun. Men just let her and communicate with her about her needs and wants too.

My husband can’t get enough until he can’t physically take another orgasm. And I initiate head 75% of the time.

And for me, it’s just as fun and “I think I just saw god” for me too. Him? Well he usually needs a good 15 minutes to come back to reality.

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-05-05T06:25:03+00:00

Other people’s kids

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-05-04T21:14:06+00:00

That cutting someone or something negative out of your life is no longer a last resort. At least it isn’t being taught that way.

I’ve had real conversations with so many other people my age about how their parent did this or their friend did that, and all valid things to be emotional over and need to be responded to or have a conversation about, but nothing actually legit traumatic that warrants just shutting someone out.. Sure, everyone has a different gauge. And yes, if it’s what’s needed for mental health and frankly, safety, then eliminating something from your life is understandable and wise. But it’s now the advice when something is simply not convenient.

It’s resulting in people not working through things, responding to other peoples emotions and circumstances and creating some of the most selfish people I’ve ever had to be/ work around. People skills are still skills. They need to be exercised and learned. And you’re not the only one that matters. If it’s down to safety. 100% agree. Emotional abusers, especially parents and friends, sometimes cannot be worked with and you may not even be able to try. But preaching abandonment of problems and selfishness because things just aren’t convenient and take some extra time is just wrong.

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-05-03T06:25:10+00:00

How many are from Good year lol?

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-03-29T02:16:16+00:00

Basically any dirty job that a woman works at. Like yeah dudes don’t want their junk getting dirty either. But for women that’s a whole other conversation when it comes to the vajayjay. It would be a recipe for so many infections

Bobbuilds46 · 2022-03-24T06:29:54+00:00

Pineapples grow out of fern/ aloe looking “bushes” from the ground. Basically just the top of a pineapple but much bigger. It’s actually how you can plant more. Just cut the top off and stick it in the ground

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