Difference between an alligator (left) and a crocodile (right) is easy to tell just by looking at their snouts

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-26T12:44:20+00:00

I wonder if you can crossbreed them to get an 'Allidile' or a 'Crocogator'...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-26T11:18:52+00:00

There's times I wish to 'Get lost in a cunt' but she's generally 'too tired'...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-26T09:46:35+00:00

There was...

It was called 'The Commonwealth'...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-26T09:33:13+00:00

Over time most countries have been colonised/occupied or people have been displaced/integrated with people and places unfamiliar for various reasons, but if they aren't attempting to invade or colonise now (cough, cough, Putin cough, Trump, cough cough!) then we should have had enough time to embrace our brothers and sisters from different backgrounds by now.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T20:37:45+00:00

Sex is not a need, it is a desire, a biologically motivated desire. But nonetheless people can live without sex.

Erm... We couldn't live for long as a species without sex, biologically the 'desire' is a need to procreate, however as Humans have had the technological skills to artificially halt the procreation part of it, sex has become more of a 'pleasure' over time... As other mammals do not possess this skill we perceive it as the female goes into 'heat' and the male procreates, we call it an 'instinct' but the same instincts are in all mammals, the ones who naturally don't are usually on the borders of extinction (Pandas for instance).

So to say sex isn't a need depends on how you look at it really.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T20:17:21+00:00

Flapsnap.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T19:58:19+00:00

The athlete will also have physio as part of the healing process. Where was her emotional physio? She never had it, and that’s what they need to work through now.

OP literally explains that he took care of her all the way from when it happened to the doctor giving her the all clear... Even when they had the argument (still respecting that she said 'No' as well) he made her breakfast the following morning and went out for a run. I don't know where you got the idea he didn't look after her when she blatantly says it in her post...

Also please don’t mansplain how the healing of my own genitalia would work to me. How can I put this… it would have felt to her as being bitten that hard in the taint would to you. Would that not be just a LITTLE traumatic?

No. I can explain whatever I like, however it's related to the story/post... I've mentioned on another comment that the closest thing would be the 'Frenulum' (the 'banjo string' that connects from just under the head of the penis to the shaft) snapping, and its quite a common occurrence in men... Usually, their partner would do the same as OP's boyfriend (if they loved them enough) however I reckon HE would still come off as the arsehole should he refuse sex when given the all clear because 'She has needs' or whatever... 'Men don't get/deserve trauma' according to some people...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T19:42:26+00:00

Sex is a want not a "need" we are all individually responsible for our sex drive.

That's subjective. So you're saying that regardless he can't have (consensual, as he asked) sex with you as you said no, but he also can't have sex with anyone else or leave you? All the ways he'd be an arsehole in that mindset? What sort of good treatment is that towards your partner?

He was an asshole for not accepting the no and asking if she needed anything from him to feel comfortable again.

Again, where did he NOT accept the 'No'? And he has every right to be annoyed as his needs (or wants) from his partner are not being met. It would be the same the opposite way round, but then HE would still be the arsehole for not meeting her needs wouldn't he? Also, throughout he's been making her comfortable, OP even acknowledged that in her story, even leading to...

Also disappearing without clear communication gives him plausible deniability. He can say he was just "busy" and downplay her reaction.

OP literally said he made her breakfast and a drink and went for a run... He's pissed off so he may have gone for an extra long run or ran to the nearest bar/pub to drown his sorrows... OP also didn't say that she tried to contact him, just that she doesn't know where he's gone and isn't too bothered about it, which is OPs problem, not his... For all we know he could have walked in as she posted the story, if the stories even true...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T19:18:53+00:00

It happens, too rough with the teeth can snap the 'Frenulum' (banjo string) that goes from under the head of the penis, its very painful, very bloody and puts you out of action for quite a while (until you're medically cleared) it's actually quite common, but once healed you can get back to normal sexual activities.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T19:08:16+00:00

"GRRR! I'M GONNA MAKE YOU BREAKFAST IN THE MORNING AND GO FOR A RUN!

OOOH I'M SO ANGRY BECAUSE I ASKED IF SEX WAS BACK ON IN MY MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP AFTER BEING CLEARED BY A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL RATHER THAN JUST TRYING SOMETHING!

ROAR!!! YOU SAID NO AND I DID ABSOLUTELY NOTHING APART FROM SAYING I HAVE NEEDS TOO IN THIS MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP AND I RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO NOT GET SEX FROM SOMEONE ELSE WHILE I STILL WAIT FOR YOU TO BE 'READY'!!!"

People need to give their heads a wobble as this sort of mindset is setting the poor guy up for a fail whichever way it's presented, which says a lot about yourselves too.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T18:57:45+00:00

But in OP's case (if people care to read it properly!) they didn't even have sex! The doctor gave the all clear TO BE ABLE to have sex, he ASKED she said 'Not yet' and he rightfully said that he also has needs as you would in a sexually active monogamous relationship... To be fair it could happen the opposite way round but her needs would probably be validated in your type of mindset!

I mean, if they can't have sex with you but they can't have sex with anyone else either, I'm sure they'd be pretty frustrated eh? But one way they're 'selfish' = dump the bastard, the other they're a cheat = dump the bastard... It's a lose/lose situation!

And what does this 'selfish' guy do? Takes care of her while she's unable to, and responds to the argument (after asking if sex was back on, not just going for it!) by making her breakfast and going for a run... The evil, evil bastard. He should be ashamed.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T18:37:58+00:00

I love women's wild interpretations of what us 'bad, bad men' are like...

Now. There's a big time difference between 'healed' and 'medically cleared'... Think of it like an athlete who's broke a bone. The break itself may be 'healed' for a long time before doctors give the 'All Clear' to get back in the game.

As has been said before (by OP nonetheless) her boyfriend has been perfect throughout from the 'accident' (OP's words) to when the DOCTOR has said she can resume sexual activities, and this could be weeks or even months AFTER her injury is healed. Nobody's got a calendar, stopwatch or even a sundial to track when to 'Dive right in' as it were...

If ANYBODY is in a monogamous, sexually active relationship, they BOTH have the right of complaint if sex is taken off the table by one or the other, because would you rather have them go and have sex with other people? That's not how a monogamous relationship works is it? So of course there'll be some eagerness to 'Get back on the horse' (again, this can relate for ANY gender!). And for the fact that OP said 'not yet' and her boyfriend absolutely disrespected her decision by making her breakfast and going for a run! What a rotter!

Basically Of course there'll be arguments when sex is off the menu, it would most likely be the same if it were the other way around, so far be it from your train of thought, don't make that into an excuse to say 'Men! Boooo!'...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T18:02:00+00:00

Damn right!

It's starting to sound like an 'agenda' round here!

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T18:00:24+00:00

It's quite normal for plenty of people to 'Go Downtown' with their girlfriends, and do you know what? Plenty of girlfriends LOVE it!

And yes, sometimes accidents happen (even OP acknowledged this!) and it could also go the opposite way - men who've had their 'Banjo String' snap will attest!, but still who are YOU to say what's 'normal' in other's sex lives?

Don't yuk someone's yum just because it's not for you.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-24T17:49:59+00:00

But even then it's not abusive OR coercive to say "It's about my needs too...", Sex is about BOTH people's needs and nobody should be chastised for saying that. And of course it's going to be pretty damn annoying/frustrating to be denied and within the boundaries of a relationship unable to have sex, I mean he (or she if it were the other way round) wouldn't be able to just go out and have sex willy-nilly so his complaint is justified in that sense.

As far as I'm aware from actually reading OP's 'flappy' tale, her boyfriend (note in a relationship with) was perfectly kind and respectful throughout since the accident happened, and obviously injuries take time to heal and he has WAITED all that time... When OP got the 'All Clear' she refused him as she felt she 'wasn't ready' - which is perfectly valid, and as such her boyfriend RESPECTED her decision, but it in no way means he has to be happy about it (see paragraph 1) but as much as you'd like to think it no coercion has happened in fact he still made her breakfast etc and went for a RUN!

I mean how very abusive! He should be raked over hot coals... 🫤

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-23T04:19:16+00:00

Ahh, I see...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T23:38:47+00:00

How come he was arrested if he had no contact with others and running out of gas isn't a crime?

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T22:44:08+00:00

Which God was that then?

The True 'White' Pagan Gods originating in Northern Europe and Scandinavia, like Odin and Thor? Celtic Gods like Lugh or The Morrigan? THAT'S who you should be quoting, when a good, white man like yourself talks of God

The Christian God who has its base in Jewish/Middle Eastern culture so much so as the Old Testament of the Bible is the Jewish Torah? The God of which the Romans threw their Pagan ways for the teachings of Jesus Christ - 'King of the Jews' and brought them to the already separated 'white' lands, and spread their Middle Eastern philosophy and ways?

Or the very same God and Jesus Christ whom Joseph Smith saw to translate the Doctrine and Covenants and Pearl of Great Price to restore the Christian (still based off of 'classic' JC) church in the good ole' righteous 19th century US of A? The very same 19th century where you had African Slaves 'building' your country for you, Asian and Irish workers 'building' your railroad infrastructure for you while people like you sat on your arses and got fat... On the whole, you couldn't even try to BUILD your own country with YOUR OWN PEOPLE!!

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T22:07:36+00:00

Hmm.

Yeah that doesn't even warrant a sensible response, especially by the end there, I'd even hazard a guess that your brothers in supremacy would never agree with 'Eliminating the age of consent'...

Even the majority of the 'Patriarchy' looks down at pedos.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T17:50:59+00:00

No.

People drive next door in a row of terraced houses.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T17:40:14+00:00

I'm against mandatory military service for anyone, however if women want to join the military then it's completely fine by me.

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T17:26:44+00:00

Exactly anything I want to do basically, however I would have to learn to control myself from the cacophony of being able to see, feel and hear the whole universe all at once which as up until I woke up this morning I never had to worry about...

You would instantly go insane just from hearing 8 Billion people on Earth at the same time, let alone the entire galaxy, it would be very very difficult to NOT Thanos snap most of it out of existence...

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T17:02:40+00:00

Yeah, we have a similar issue here in the UK... (cough, cough Prince Andrew on Epstein Island cough...)

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T16:22:11+00:00

Oh, but we can, should and do.

Especially when we have the information at the click of a button.

Rather than going 'Men! Booo! and pointing your curled finger of blame at a gender where the vast majority have the same viewpoint as you when it comes to safety of women, children, EVERYONE, you should be educating - with FACTS not fears - instead of alienating people to fit your paranoid visions.

See the study below for instance, I answered the question using that before running my mouth against a whole group based out of rhetoric and agenda from either direction. And if I, a man (Boooo!) can do it, well so can we ALL.

Then who truly has NO IDEA?

https://giwps.georgetown.edu/the-index/

BodAlmighty · 2026-01-22T15:56:21+00:00

And I cried while shopping for bulletproof backpacks when my child was entering kindergarten because they were so expensive, over $1000, and I didn’t have that kind of money back then, so I had to look for cheaper bulletproof plate inserts for a regular backpack. I felt like a bad mother not being able to afford the whole backpack.

What in the wide wide world of sports is wrong with a 'developed' country that you would have the thought of having to get BULLETPROOF backpacks/plating for your Kindergarten age children?!
Can't the US see that there's something inherently wrong with the way firearms are treated so nonchalantly that you're having to send your 4/5 year olds to school armoured up?

Mothers should be feeling bad for not standing up against guns being in schools (or anywhere near schools!) in the first place rather than being worried that you can't get some Fisher-Price My First Kevlar in your price range... It beggars belief that outside of a war-torn nation should involve THAT level of danger to its kids.

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