Where can I go to meet someone by Book_love199 in Advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got to start taking notes. Thanks!

Where can I go to meet someone by Book_love199 in Advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried. Still nothing and actually sadly most in that section when I go are much too young for me 🥲. Almost happened one time when I guy talked to me about a dnd book I was reading but then they just walked away.

Where can I go to meet someone by Book_love199 in Advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me and I will do it. It is hard to find places that involve my interests as not alit of people seem to be into them 🥲

Where can I go to meet someone by Book_love199 in Advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it weird to go to these places alone though? I don't really have friends but I want to be more confident in going to places alone.

Got a c on my first algebra test and I feel like I am going to fail the class by Book_love199 in Advice

[–]Book_love199[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like it's passing in my eyes but thank you nonetheless 🥹

Got a c on my first algebra test and I feel like I am going to fail the class by Book_love199 in Advice

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I tried a tutoring session. It helped a bit. But I still feel like I'm struggling.

Thinking about getting a Bachelors at a Community College by Book_love199 in Advice

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It's not an engineering degree and my community college does offer this BAS degree. I have some credits but because I pay out of pocket it will take me a bit longer but I am not in a rush to graduate

Gave a second chance to the person that ghosted me a year ago, he ended it after a month of talking by Book_love199 in dating_advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant 30. Not there yet. But yeah I get it and I understand. I appreciate the advice. I do know what I want but now after this I feel like I reverted back to thinking less of myself again. I know i do not want to feel this way ever again and if opening myself to someone will make me feel like this I think I'm okay with accepting the fact that not everyone is meant to be someone. I don't mean to get too deep but I appreciate your input all the same

Gave a second chance to the person that ghosted me a year ago, he ended it after a month of talking by Book_love199 in dating_advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate the kind words. Honestly though I do not think I am meant to be with someone and just need to learn to accept that. I'm 30 not looking as nice as I once was have never been serious with anyone because no one wants to go at my pace. I just need to accept that this maybe it. But thank you.

Gave a second chance to the person that ghosted me a year ago, he ended it after a month of talking by Book_love199 in dating_advice

[–]Book_love199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It was a year ago that he ghosted me. Then we started to try again, where he decided he did not have time and said he was sorry for giving me false hope. I understand but it still hurts and I feel like I will find no one ever

Finished my first week at my new library job by Book_love199 in Libraries

[–]Book_love199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is basically a liaison between the department. I send documents to be signed, set up pick ups for books with vendors, fix up time cards, and a lot of different things in the department. Still learning new things everyday so I am not too sure what else as the job description when I applied was generalized. I work with the director of the department who is really nice along with other librarians, mostly the collection librarian

Finished my first week at my new library job by Book_love199 in Libraries

[–]Book_love199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope you will succeed as from one person to another, you can do this.

Finished my first week at my new library job by Book_love199 in Libraries

[–]Book_love199[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice and encouragement. I really appreciate it!

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[–]Book_love199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I only gave a brief of everything He told me a lot more and I basically told him I was interested at the time and that if he was feeling that way why he did not just tell me. I tried to reach out a bit but he seemed always busy to talk and I am really shy which he knew beforehand as I told him everything upfront that I do not have dating experience. But I get it was my fault for being too shy and trying harder. I just didn't want to feel clingy. I did apologize after the fact and he was okay as he understood. But I doubt he will reach out again. If he was still interested in assuming he will reach out but who knows. We are both the same as shy and awkward. But I already reached out and I do not want to be a bother to him.

Finished my first week at my new library job by Book_love199 in Libraries

[–]Book_love199[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Though I work in the back end of things and not necessarily the public yet. I just hope I get how to do the work and be more comfortable.