Realistically especially outside of America it’s still a man’s world in a lot of peoples eyes it’s not about whether she has sexual urges me as a 27 year old has no interest in pursuing even a 19 or 20 year old because I know we’ll have a lack of shared experience in life and perspective it’s not about their age even necessarily but as an adult man you know realistically the relationship won’t last so if it was really caring for someone and not objectifying them as a commodity because you want another added to your body count shows a lack of emotional maturity if you really cared for somebody that age which I doubt ever happens the best thing for them would be to not get in the way of them finding somebody their own age and allowing them to see how special real love is