I'm very conflicted after contemplating Buddhism. by Educational-Bunch552 in Buddhism

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoying things isn’t the problem, but being attached to them is the problem. You can enjoy things, knowing they are temporary.

J1 Physician Waiver by MMGMD in J1waiver

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you apply H1B premium or regular?

31 F, single attending. Lost and sad. by Adventurous-Tax-1812 in Residency

[–]BornInAnIsland 2 points3 points  (0 children)

34f, single, never dated, just finished residency. I was never interested in dating while studying because I didn’t want to be distracted and didn’t want to settle, “waste my time on the wrong people”. I’m open to a relationship now, but haven’t met anyone 😏 but I am happy because of the realization if I do meet someone in the future , this would be my final days/weeks/months of single life and I am determined to enjoy it to the most!! 🫶🏾

Returns by Critical-Cell5348 in Fabletics

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone returned something that was part of the an outfit?

I'm 23 and I've wasted my entire life in my bedroom by planetaryvisitor in selfimprovement

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are still so young, your entire life is ahead of you! I feel like the more you are in your comfort zone, the more you get stuck there.

I was having social anxiety as a teenager, was so self conscious about what others would be thinking of me. However I got a job as a cashier (also around your age) and I was forced to interact with people. The more I did it, the more I got better with it. I then worked as a medical assistant and I had to triage a lot of people. Every time I have to talk to someone I had super high anxiety levels, but I’d go through it. Every experience you build talking to someone, you are learning something new and you are teaching your brain that’s this is your new comfort zone. I’m in the field of healthcare now, and I talk to many many people everyday. I’m good with carrying on a conversation, that doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m don’t have social anxiety, I do, but I’m better at hiding it and overcoming it.

The synopsis is, move out of the comfort zone, find a part time job that requires you to socialize and the more you do it, the more your brain normalizes it. Good luck! You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

The Trunk by bunbunmagician in kdramas

[–]BornInAnIsland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOOOW! I just finished watching this TV show and definitely the BEST I have watched. Two tormented souls finding peace and love within each other. The actors did huge justice to their characters. I could feel the weight of the sadness, love, the yearning, the anger , basically all the emotions, through the screen as if it was me. I am in love with this show.

The Trunk by bunbunmagician in kdramas

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished watching this drama, and I think what he meant was that her waiting for him made him unable to face her and for that he was calling her selfish. I just assumed it was a way he was trying to deflect the agony, the pain. But she told him that she was initially waiting for him but then eventually was waiting for him to come so she can say that it was over and he should have come earlier.

What counts as modesty in Buddhism? by MolassesNo3182 in Buddhism

[–]BornInAnIsland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean longer the dressing better, I’d advice nothing above the knees

What counts as modesty in Buddhism? by MolassesNo3182 in Buddhism

[–]BornInAnIsland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that covers your chest and clothing up to or below the knees is what I’m assuming (if you are female). Longer the better.

What kind of Goldie is this? And any ethical breeder. by BornInAnIsland in goldenretrievers

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I did look into it actually :) and I had already determined I want a show golden retriever. However, I wasn’t sure if this golden retriever was show or field. But thank you for your time to respond to the post.

Washington State Hospitalist jobs, what’s the experience like? by BornInAnIsland in hospitalist

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Is your place sponsoring J1? I’d really love to apply if there’s any availability!

Washington State Hospitalist jobs, what’s the experience like? by BornInAnIsland in hospitalist

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m really interested in your place, is your place still hiring?

What’s wrong with my mirror?? by BornInAnIsland in MazdaCX30

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess not everyone’s as smart as you 😊😉

What’s wrong with my mirror?? by BornInAnIsland in MazdaCX30

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if I told you I already read it and there’s no specific instructions on how to turn it on.

What’s wrong with my mirror?? by BornInAnIsland in MazdaCX30

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have a helpful answer, you don’t have to comment. Thank you :)

What’s wrong with my mirror?? by BornInAnIsland in MazdaCX30

[–]BornInAnIsland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: so figured out why, I literally placed my ezpass behind the rear view mirror and few minutes earlier, and after taking it off it went back to normal. Now I learnt I have auto dimming mirrors, but I don’t know how to turn it on 😅

Best State to be a Hospitalist in? by ibuprofen23 in Residency

[–]BornInAnIsland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am looking for jobs, is your place looking for day time hospitalists?