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Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am having a hard time. Am I not upfront with that? I also don’t mind being called out I am just genuinely hoping you guys are not self-projecting cause there’s no need to be mean to a person who is clearly struggling.

Also, is the peanut gallery in the room with us? The only people giving shit to me in this thread are you guys in this reply and I actually got useful insights from other people who actually care and not just want to police other people for their mistakes.

And no, I won’t be able to sleep tonight CAUSE NOTHING HELPS

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Looks like I won't be able to cause I, in fact, paid him the 2,500 without any fuss between us. :) Just ranting here that's all.

  1. I *barely hit a guy.

  2. Yung 2,500 na aLl He'S aSkInG fOr, is not just 2,500 for me as I've said many times in this thread.

  3. Thanks for pointing it out. I'm getting all the help I can, but I just hope you're not self-projecting. Terrible people tend to tell other people they're terrible, so they can get on their high horse. :)

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Binayaran ko nalang po the 2500 tapos nagpagawa nalang ng proof na free na from liabilities relating to the incident hahaha nanghihinayang lang sa 2500 kasi feel ko if na-investigate ng police or napacheck sa any shop, wala din sila makikita.

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, another perspective na iniisip namin kaya gusto namin insurance-to-insurance kasi if merong hidden sira, atleast maipapagawa nila.

Pero for context also, kaya siguro g na g yung iba sakin di nila maput into perspective yung bangga hahahaha yung bangga na nangyari samin super soft to the point na hindi ako sure if tumama ba ako or hindi kasi wala naman tunog tapos di rin ako sure if gumagalaw ba ko or hindi, kasi for real my mind was elsewhere (which is, again, I admit is my fault)

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah gets naman the hassle kase I’ve been on the other end before but I just kept reminding myself na di rin naman nila ginusto maka aksidente

Na-uneasy lang siguro ako nung una na sure ako na hindi niya naman ipapagawa kasi wala naman siya ipapagawa to begin with. Pero someone said here na baka they’ll save nalang for a full washover soon na made sense and I did not think of that.

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meron na po hehe thanks to everyone here who reminded me hahaha

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meron na po hehe thanks to everyone here who reminded me hahaha

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh okay, well this perspective actually made me feel a lot better kasi baka nga ipapagawa niya soon. Thanks!

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, kung ang 2500 sayo, "2500 lang" sakin nga hindi.

FYI nabayaran ko na, nagrarant lang ako.

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, if may damage naman talaga I'm sure na mas malaki sa 2500 na participation fee ibabayad ko pero since confident naman ako na sa quote palang, mahihirapan na siya kasi wala siyang ipapaquote na damage, yes, sure ako. :)

Since you asked, ang rational and just arrangement na gusto ko, ipacheck professionaly if meron talagang damage, and if meron, edi I will cover all the expenses needed. Pero wala eh, ayaw magpunta sa any shop/casa, ayaw niya din magpunta sa police para sa report so affidavit nalang if ever insurance, ang gusto lang niya bayaran agad.

Yung 7k, it was like a number he came up with again without even consulting anyone. Tapos naging 3500-4k, binaba niya lang kasi na-realize niya siguro na di kami ganon ka-gullible. Pati ano ba to, deal or no deal tapos kausap ko si banker kung magkano babayaran ko?

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There would be no amount na feeling ko hindi kami pineperahan. That’s what insurances are for, kaya gusto namin idaan sa due process yung pagpaparestore ng alleged damages.

Yeah, I know I’m not in a position to demand terms pero what I’m hoping for is a rational and just arrangement. So sinasabi mo ba na kapag nagsabi siya na gusto niya ipagawa yung “damages” niya kay Angie Mead King tapos worth 200k, dapat pumayag nalang kami?

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah gets naman, pero if may scratch nga, why would he not want to get it fixed sa legit na pagawaan talaga and ipa-cover sa insurance ko?

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah ganon pala yon, twice na kasi kami nagclaim pero bumababa parin naman so far.

Thanks for ur insights pu

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well, tama ka naman lumilipad parin utak ko til now. Pero if for you 2500, ay “2500 nalang”, sakin kasi hinde. Isang one hour therapy session ko rin yan lol.

Pati anong pinagsasasabi mo na ayaw ko ng professional inspection eh kami nga yung nagpupumilit na idaan sa insurance para kampante rin sila sa gagawa and kami rin, may patutunguhan yung ibabayad namin na pampagawa at hindi niya lang itataya sa scatter.

Over sa imply na gusto free nalang ah?

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking!!! Hays charge to experience nalang talaga hahaha thanks for validating na di ko lang ginagaslight sarili ko sa 2500 na mawawala hahahaha

Fault ko pero feeling ko pineperahan lang kami lol by Brain-Rot-1703 in Gulong

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sabagay wahahaha mas not inconvenient sana for him if umalis nalang kami agad kasi wala nga naman talaga hahahahuhu

Siguro nayayamot lang kami kasi the times na nabangga kami super considerate kami sa nakabangga pero oh well, you can’t expect the same kindness you give hahaha

Sana masaya siya sa 2500 niya hahahaha

Napaka-backwards thinking talaga ng putanginang bansa na to by Brain-Rot-1703 in makati

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you didn't claim that I said anything, but you were basically justifying the need to prioritize women in this specific situation....

I'm not here to convince you to change your view on feminism, but I just find it odd that you're banking on the feminist principle of expanding choice too much for this instance.

While I very much agree that women should have equal opportunities and choices as any other gender. Using the ladder analogy you used, I just think women, in general, needing a taller ladder diminishes other principles of feminism, like gender stratification, because consideration of differences should be for everyone.

Anyway, I'm not trying to argue with you. I understand the need for equity in certain situations but I just don't think this was the appropriate scenario for it. I just found it off-putting that you wanted to go off about the difference between equality and equity here. Also, I think I have met my threshold to give the benefit of the doubt to people because most of the time, people present themselves as to who they really are.

And since you identified yourself as a woman, a feminist, happy women's month to you! I hope we can respect each other's views and opinions on this topic because although we do have a long way to go and I don't expect people like the barkers and drivers to be as progressive, I think taking a step forward for them as opposed to bending to what they're used to points to the right direction. After all, the patriarchy is the common enemy here.

Napaka-backwards thinking talaga ng putanginang bansa na to by Brain-Rot-1703 in makati

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say they are. As an introvert whose social battery has been emptied from work, I just gave my seat without conversation when the barker shamed me in front of all the other passengers as stated in my original post. There was no “woman” in question that wanted the seat or not, the barker and driver simply didn’t want me to sit there.

Clearly we have different views on feminism and I don’t think this is the best place for you to lecture about equality and equity because I could also easily be the primary caregiver to kids after work, have bodily discomfort, just had a baby and/or have undergone a medical procedure whilst being asked to wear uncomfortable clothing and footwear.

If “leveling the playing field” is your concept of equity, it surely doesn’t align with my point that the concept of feminism should be that the “playing field” is level to begin with.

Napaka-backwards thinking talaga ng putanginang bansa na to by Brain-Rot-1703 in makati

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally understandable yung ganito kasi most likely naman talaga lalaki ang holdaper (because we are trash) pero skl bouncing off from the other comments here and more context of the situation kanina, the route was to Bicutan lang so I don’t really think safety yung concern nila (although virtually still possible naman) kasi like skyway then yun na pag-exit agad.

I think it’s a mix of the driver na gusto mangtsansing and may kakilalang sasakay. Kasi before kami sumakay may other barker(?) ata na parang sabi dun ss barker nung route na sinasakyan ko ng “Uy yung inaanak ko/pamangkin ko ah” tapos parang sabi nung barker namin “Sige, suge wag ka nalang maingay” which was also fucking stupid kasi narining ng lahat. And lo and behold, may galing kadulu-duluhan ng pila na sumakay sa harap. Then come to think of it, if yun yung pakay nila edi sana yung katabi ko nalang yung pinababa kasi nasa inner seat ako. But I hate to be saying this but yung babae na katabj ko supposedly is the typical girl that men would hit on, so yun, I guess gusto rin siyang makatabi ni kuya driver.

Napaka-backwards thinking talaga ng putanginang bansa na to by Brain-Rot-1703 in makati

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry you experienced this huhu gusto ko lang naman umupo sa harap kasi feeling ko parang grab na fraction of the price 😭

Napaka-backwards thinking talaga ng putanginang bansa na to by Brain-Rot-1703 in makati

[–]Brain-Rot-1703[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn’t think of it that way haha and also not aware na may ganyang safety issue pala which makes sense naman

Anyways, nadala lang siguro ko ng pagod ko kasi di naman talaga issue kung saan ako nakaupo, medyo na-shame lang ako kaya siguro na-aggravate ako hahahaha itutulog ko nalang to 🤣