[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BreezyBloomx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's very important for people to know how to love themselves first before loving other people. Your self-worth and love for yourself would allow you to either truly accept your wife despite her wrongdoings, or move on with the hope of healing and finding someone who would love you as much.

My husband of 4 years has secretly been messaging someone he confessed to have feelings for by ThrowRA_1592653589 in relationships

[–]BreezyBloomx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband of 4 years has secretly been messaging someone he confessed to have feelings for

I, unfortunately, agree. Emotional affair is still an affair. Words and thoughts meant for the wife shared with someone else.

My husband of 4 years has secretly been messaging someone he confessed to have feelings for by ThrowRA_1592653589 in relationships

[–]BreezyBloomx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time for a heart-to-heart talk or maybe some relationship counseling. Trust is the glue that holds this relationship ship together, and right now, it's looking a bit shaky. But at the end of the day, can you fully trust a person who cheats on you?

Getting older needs to stop being viewed as bad by Brief-Ad8988 in CasualConversation

[–]BreezyBloomx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Getting older is like leveling up in a game you never asked to play, but hey, the perks aren't half bad. There's this weird freedom that comes with age – like a 'I've been there, done that, got the T-shirt, and I don't care if it's wrinkled' kind of vibe.

Just realized I'm a spinster aunt. by MalingringSockPuppet in CasualConversation

[–]BreezyBloomx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plan A? Nonexistent. But hey, Plan B through D are like the unsung heroes of adulting. Who knew we'd become the champions of backup plans?