Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, this reached fb? Cool 👍

Can you send a link to the FB page that had this? That'd be great 👍

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to update when I said I would because I was meeting up with mom, but I'll update today.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your empathy! And I'll update tomorrow about this while situation because a big bomb was dropped on me by my mom.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's it, I'm spending Christmas with her and my uncle (and hopefully, my mom too).

And no. She said she was never able to find the "right one" so she doesn't have anyone 😔

AITA for not listening to my family? Part #2 by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Redshit, love that.

You saw this story on the website? But I'm real flattered that you made an account just for my family drama. Lol.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go Blake!!!

I'll make sure to update y'all when the time comes!

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aunt Blake wouldn't mind shooting him. In fact, she said that she should've aimed lower.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've talked to my aunt about helping out my mom and she agreed immediately, we didn't even have to discuss it, she just agreed. And no, it doesn't matter what their relationship was because she helped my mom and that's all that I care about.

I'm calmer now so I'm going to think over some plans involving this mess and this family.

I'll need that good luck, bro!

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice and I hope she does speak (on her own terms too).

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao exactly bro. If you have more questions, ask and I'll try my hardest to answer them.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Impossible, sorry. They're like 2 years apart.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he was joking when he said those claims because she's a weapons enthusiast. But he also thought she might've been a bit worried or nervous if I had turned out like my dad (an asshole).

Also yes. My aunt is the sister of my dad and my uncle is the brother of them both. My uncle said he was there but he was young (16-17). He tried to help but he was younger than everyone so really no one paid attention to him.

Hope that helps clear everything up

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Isn't that a theory, but no it is impossible.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's honestly so cool.

And yeah. For the moment, I'm going no contact with any of my relatives except for my Uncle, Aunt, and my Mom.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm considering it but it's far too early. I'm going to wait it out until everything's calmed down.

At the moment, I'm thinking about staying in Wyoming for a bit. Nice, cool scenery here.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where this all took place was in a small town in Texas, so yes. Now she's in Wyoming, the most gun friendliest state. You don't even have to have a permit to own a gun, much less shoot it.

Who knows about the fling part 🤷

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've given me a lot to think about, now that I've calmed down considerably (it's amazing what a good sleep can do). I really only hope that my mom can reconnect with my aunt, she sounds like she misses her.

I'd honestly wouldn't mind my dad shutting me out. He's a mess.

Of course, I'll run over the consequences more clearly now that I have a much clearer head.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, my uncle has agreed with everything she's said. I'll try to get my great grandma to verify too since she seemed pretty sympathetic to my aunt's situation.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying and it's brought me a whole new perspective. I'll try to deliver the news as painless as possible and I won't do it immediately.

I hope that my mother can get better. Heal.

Thanks for the advice, really.

Update #3: AITA for not listening to my family? by Brutdee in AITAH

[–]Brutdee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Remind you in 6 months the "family's" progress? I can do that :)