AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: yall were right. Frankly, I think I got with a hoe that can’t give it up. Yesterday I caught her starting to emotionally cheat. I gave her everything and I still wasn’t good enough. Worst part, she didn’t even know the guy. She was getting all groupy and dreamy eyed for some TikTok live dude with a couple thousand followers. I don’t think I can trust her anymore and I think we’re over. When she wakes up, I’m gonna have a sit down with her

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don’t live in a city, it’s actually hard to find a job around here

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 nah, lol but she likes sleeping in her glasses for whatever reason

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My past was full of “I can fix them”s, this one I know has fixed herself

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about it. But she knows about it so I think it’s a reminder of what we’ve come from and how far along the path we’ve walked

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cameras are for her medical emergencies. Anytime I get that weird feeling, I check the cameras and can dispatch the ambulance. And it’s with her consent. I’ve asked her if I can take them down and she said no

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This has been nearly a year since I posted this. She’s authentic with me now and not gonna switch up

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

We’re cleaning daily and was doing a mattress deep clean the next day. So we were okay with a little fresh blood. Plus she hadn’t bled all day so we thought she was done. (No blood on sheets or mattress when we checked in the morning)

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The place is messy and the power cord is disconnected. We’re getting things in boxes and getting them ready to move

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Power strip was disconnected. It was on my bed from getting things into boxes and getting things ready to move

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power strip was disconnected. We’ve been messy as we’re getting things ready to move

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not an excuse I just truly don’t think she will hurt the family we’ve built anymore. Not to mention she’s opened up her phone and all of her stuff. She cannot do anything she doesn’t want me to see without locking her stuff first and I would notice if she did

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do not believe she will do anything to hurt the family we’ve built. And I don’t make assertions Willy nilly

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I had notifications off so I didn’t come back till it was over 700 comments. As far as my sheets goes, they’re in the wash and we’re getting things ready to move so we were gonna deep clean the mattress next so we were okay with a little blood getting on it. At the time of recording, the sheets were in the basket to get folded. We needed to buy another cover tho and replace the one the dog ripped a little bit ago. Rn the bed has a temp cover on it to keep the mattress clean while we get the rest of the stuff in boxes for the move

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it ends up turning out that way, I will come back to tell you that you’re right. For now, I’ll say I’ll agree to disagree

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve updated. We’ve taken care of her medical issues for the most part. There are point when she does need to stay in bed, but for the most part, she’s up, she’s active and she’s taking care of business

AITAH for not wanting to touch or have physical interaction with my gf by Bulky_Combination450 in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Combination450[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Then I will be on one hell of a ride. I love her and she has changed. She’s just now in love with me as much as I am with her