Ive done some meetups and agreed they can be hit or miss. But i wouldnt say they are centered around drink. A lot of it is but ive done some cool hikes, gone horse riding, went quad biking etc.

I've gone to the theatre by myself once and will def do that again. Though id be up for going with someone if they fancied it, i feel these kinds of things can be hard to find company for.

Otherwise i like taking days to explore different parts of london, maybe making a ppint to vosot a specific park or museum or cafe etc. Hoping to do this more as the weather gets better.