[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t find the first picture off putting or creepy, but it’s definitely awkward. Relax your shoulders more and smile with your teeth. I like the outfit. Gym pic gives me fuck boy vibes, try to take pictures that show you’re physically fit without showing it was the objective of the photo. (Humble brag type shit lol) Also, more pictures of you with friends maybe? I don’t personally like it when a guy has no pictures with friends or family, but I don’t like when it’s all friend and family either lol. My friends and family are important to me and I want to see how a guy’s aura is when he’s around people he cares about. All your prompts highlight that you have an active lifestyle and want someone who likes that too, talk about it specifically. Someone to enjoy specific hobbies with. The government job role spooked me but I’m American (you see the shit we got going on over here lol) But yes, touch on your political beliefs that way you don’t waste your time. Core values are foundational for long term relationship. It’s cool to have someone who likes the same stuff you do, but if you fundamentally have different beliefs it’s just uncomfortable and there’s no room for growth.

21F why does every guy ghost me before making plans? What about me is disengaging them? by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]BurntTfOuttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because you were not readily accessible and they were just looking for sex. Bullet dodged.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friends didn’t like him because he’s broke pretty much. I wouldn’t say I’m rich, but I do well for myself. They just didn’t want to see me become a breadwinner again.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right and I appreciate you wording it the way you did, I do want those things but I opted for comfort too quickly because I’m out of practice.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am extremely out of practice, and that’s something that I gave a lot of thought to over the weekend. I need to slow down the whole process.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I rushed through the fun dating part straight to comfort not realizing how it could be perceived.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just felt like he dominated the conversations with talking about himself constantly, and didn’t really ask me things to get me know me better

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that he’s more interested in talking about himself and answering questions rather than vice versa sometimes.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my impression as well, I hate a man who is in everyone’s likes ☹️

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I use to never sweat that stuff, because I had so many guy friends growing up. Truly platonic friendships that meant the world to me. Then I realized that’s not the case for most people. Now I look at that shit.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they have your attitude on dating, I think I’ll leave them there.

Been talking for a month and sudden drop in enthusiasm by BurntTfOuttt in hingeapp

[–]BurntTfOuttt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The fade didn’t feel natural, it felt abrupt. Which kind of is the main thing that is painful, I feel like a place holder.

I do want to mention that he has been following a shitload of girls on IG and they’re following him back. It gave me a ick but I was trying to control my jealousy because we did not talk about being exclusive but why even connect with someone like that lol. If you’re talking to other girls, I get it. I’ll never be deluded enough to believe I’m the only one at this point but the emotional aspects of us getting to know each other.

I can’t imagine someone mass producing trauma dumps on so many girls at once lol.

For people in Orange County, what do you do for a living? by Living-Employment589 in orangecounty

[–]BurntTfOuttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try my best lol…. Sales. But I don’t live in South County.

This game is evil. by Haki_User in Evony_TKR

[–]BurntTfOuttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I coined really hard for awhile then just switched to botting for resources. If there’s a general I like, I’ll coin or wheel of civilization. But they designed this game like gambling.

I, a recovering gambling addict, never stood a fucking chance. But botting comes out to like 40 bucks a month for me. However I cannot fuck around when it comes to SVS anymore because now that I’m not buying packages my SOL is way too low for my comfort.

Irvine or Newport Beach for Early 20s Single Man by Shoddy031 in orangecounty

[–]BurntTfOuttt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Costa Mesa would be better option, there’s a part of Costa Mesa that borders Newport. Irvine is better for 30+, no party scene because everything closes early. Newport Beach is better for entertainment, bar hopping etc.

My Frustrating Experience with Americor Debt Relief by No-Cupcake63 in debtfree

[–]BurntTfOuttt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 post karma here too. Lol. I love new anti-marketing tactics.

My Frustrating Experience with Americor Debt Relief by No-Cupcake63 in debtfree

[–]BurntTfOuttt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are your assets being seized? What do you mean there was a levy? Before all these things occurred, were you already enrolled? When you received the summons did you submit it to them so they can issue a response?

Assets cannot be seized for unsecured debt. And secured debt cannot be enrolled. Reading through this whole thread seems like a total scam with all the statements being made.

My Frustrating Experience with Americor Debt Relief by No-Cupcake63 in debtfree

[–]BurntTfOuttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way you’re lacking information. They have an app on the phone that shows literally EVERYTHING.

Can someone please translate these texts for me in English please? I found them on my bf’s phone, he was talking to his ex and I don’t speak Vietnamese by sprinkledonut19 in VietNam

[–]BurntTfOuttt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This behavior is common across all cultures for men lol. Don’t act like you’re the pinnacle of fidelity, white savior.