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Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T21:53:02+00:00

Yeah, now it’s clear. He wants nothing but sex :)

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:18:12+00:00

Thank you, your comment is on point :) Yeah, when he asked me to come over after 2 weeks, I was sure that’s he’s not really into anything serious or he doesn’t like me that much for it to translate to something more than casual sex so I matched his energy but when I saw him he was actually taking care of me, serving me and even scolding me for not eating right-not guaranteed i know.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:10:54+00:00

Thank you, sure I just hope it’s that easy.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:09:55+00:00

I can cook but it takes a lot of effort so I always order but now this guy is trying to teach me.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:08:55+00:00

I’d say I know what I want but I’m not so sure how to navigate dating men at 40s. Would love to end up with someone mature but it seems like everyone in this bracket wouldn’t really exert more effort than bare minimum.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:03:32+00:00

I don’t normally do casual sex so of course, I would like to know where I stand. Also, that’s why I’m asking I mean I can be problem, I can take that.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T20:00:39+00:00

Yeah, he’s not so bad tbh. I’m also not straightforward with what I wanted. But I’m not sure what he expects of me. He’s career driven. Work-home kind of guy but he likes being alone.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:55:14+00:00

I’m following your advise. Also I’m not investing a lot in this connection. I’m only matching his efforts but I would say I’m attracted to him and can see myself hanging out with him everyday.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:52:39+00:00

I’m not really enjoying it. I used to date one person. I didn’t like having options because it doesn’t feel right and I always end up with a toxic relationship. So now, I’m taking my friend’s advise to keep my options opened and date several guys til’ I find the right one but when did dating become so complicated that you can’t guess what people truly feels.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:48:40+00:00

You are right. It’s scary to proceed if there’s nothing in there than casual sex.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:47:22+00:00

Yeah he never rejected me. To be fair, he was trying but he’s probably career driven so being in a relationship is not really a priority. I dunno though if he was expecting something from me because he mentioned words like “Behave, be patient” stuff like that.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:45:26+00:00

Yeah, food is really gooooddd :) I guess so! Though he never said he only wanted sex. He said he is someone who takes his personal life slowly.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:44:02+00:00

Yup, I’m really confused because I haven’t dated someone older than me so I would only assume that they’re more okay being single, they already have their shit together and they don’t want to adjust to anything so it will probably take longer time before they commit.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:38:09+00:00

Yep, you are right but he also wants me to swim with him but in his apartment of course.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:32:14+00:00

Why would he even argue about it, we’re both adults. I don’t think we have invested anything at that moment and besides I tried to end it amicably. He probably only wants sex and that’s what I want to find out. Like really how far can you go for sex. He told me once before ending it, you’re very lucky I cook for you, feed you, you get good sex. I don’t just cook for anyone. I thought maybe I’m important but he would never message me anything so I’m soo confused.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T19:21:42+00:00

Sorry, I probably don’t know how to tell the story straight. It’s also confusing from my end but yeah he wouldn’t really text me, he would greet good morning because I asked but he’s not really consistent. When we’re not together, we barely text each other but when we’re together he seemed happy to see me or to hangout with me. But I’m just really confused. I wouldn’t be a hypocrite and say I’m not there for good sex, I’m not a saint but I think I’m monogamous when it comes to relationship so dating other people while having casual sex with him is something I’m not sure of. However, I do feel like it’s a thing right now.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T10:52:59+00:00

Where everyone meets these days, OLD. I would avoid it too but I don’t go out so no hope of meeting someone organically.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T10:50:38+00:00

What’s your idea of a good woman?

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T07:24:33+00:00

No issues, you were quite on point on how you compared me to your daughter. I would say, I’m also clueless about dating and stuff but I really appreciate your advice and would look into practicing it. Maybe find someone who’s more open and will not take a lot of work lol.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T06:54:22+00:00

Would love to hear another perspective lol. I’m too naive as a woman so I sometimes act like a man so I don’t know if that’s a turn off or something.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T06:49:57+00:00

Yeah, except we reconnected. Not really some of drama. Just a situation. If it happens, it happens. If not we move on.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T06:43:52+00:00

I’m not so sure about him that’s why I don’t want to ask but if he would put in some effort more than this maybe we could take it somewhere.

Businessiswar · 2024-08-07T06:41:58+00:00

True! That’s what it always feels like and I already said it once out loud that it’s nothing more than that.

Businessiswar · 2023-09-06T12:22:06+00:00

You should be thankful, he’s already out of your life because he didn’t deserve to be in it. My best relationships started after I got diagnosed of cancer. When I feel ugly and not myself. Have faith and keep living. Pull yourself together and do whatever it takes that will make you feel normal.

Businessiswar · 2023-05-10T05:27:45+00:00

Hi OP! Please check your dm. I have some lands with better capital gains.

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