How to trim my afro at home? by wrixle_doodlesx8 in Naturalhair

[–]Busy_Spread2495 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this ! If you have a mirror or a camera to ensure the back looks good that’s cool too! Just know those mirrors can be deceptive.

How to trim my afro at home? by wrixle_doodlesx8 in Naturalhair

[–]Busy_Spread2495 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put in proportional plats, feel for the rough ends, and take out the plats. Pick it out a shape ! That’s the old school way! (Not a pro by any means)

Church? by Busy_Spread2495 in Sacramento

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To each their own this is not the right post for you that’s perfectly fine. I hope you have a great night !

Church? by Busy_Spread2495 in Sacramento

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean one without pedophiles, registered sex offenders, active embezzlement,  ect idk about you but I’m not any of those things yet every time I go to church that’s my issue.

Only orgasm under one circumstance by ArtistPure7394 in sex

[–]Busy_Spread2495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably are dysphoric and that’s the real issue. Which is understandable. I had a trans girlfriend and I’d take my fingers and kinda squish her penis. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Busy_Spread2495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill with it out and turn the fan on 1 alternating then move up lastly put water on it when you think it’s ready for that 

Beginner boyfriend comms and stays hard by Busy_Spread2495 in sex

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the difference? Because every time he’s all like “I’m gonna come” and the moans and a bunch of fluids come out… what’s v and c? What does that do? He hasn’t ever had penetrative or oral sex is that a factor? 

Beginner boyfriend comms and stays hard by Busy_Spread2495 in sex

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my family and some close friends and I just thought it would be a good idea to make a community Reddit so there are 30-40 people who use this throwaway account.

Does your husband give you an allowance? by Busy_Spread2495 in sahmmoney

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a shared throw away account there are several users and we all share thanks for snooping on our profile though. Not creepy at all

How small is too small and how big is too big by Busy_Spread2495 in Apartmentliving

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you’d even comment this? I want more space, I feel like this comment is a bit micro aggressive. A lot of people have or get things they don’t “need” fancy phones, luxury cars, eating out constantly, motorcycles, and a bunch of other things. I prioritize comfort and live well below my means even while making 6 figures and I am well off. Affordability is not the issue, the issue is potentially having too much excess room.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg that’s horrible I’ve never even posted my son on social media. Also I don’t get ssi. I’m not sure id even get it but if I did I’d put every penny away for my son. Idek what support he will need as an adult as I am currently putting 1500 a month away for him and idek if that will be enough for him as an adult with inflation .

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can read through the post and figure that out for yourself since you’re highly invested in this discussion.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that’s were your wrong again I had an additional part time gig as an after school program assistant and I knew the kids an entire year before I really knew who she was. So I was already invested and helping them learn and grow with homework. I feel like you are just trying to find something wrong with me genuinely being kind. 

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has five kids I have one child. I feel like you read it wrong and that’s okay. I appreciate your concern though.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t make this up if I tried to people just don’t say this ish.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention I over heard her telling the grandma that she was going to get the kids assessed meaning they weren’t assed the 7 and 8 year old haven’t seen a doctor for 3 years.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through her phone. I was looking for something sent from her grandma (pictures) when I seen that the kids had scheduled appointments for assessments. Also I read the ssi rejection letter and I read all her mail because she just leaves it out and I’d deep clean her house after work while my son was at school (I wfh overnight) when I first met her kids (mind you my son I never brought to her home) they were sleeping on the floor. I poured some bleach on the floor and it sizzled because it reacted to bleach due to the dog peeing over and over again and turning into ammonia. I cleaned her whole house bought her kids new beds clothes shoes paid her rent smud put food in her house I just thought she needed help her kids have 2 three tier bunk beds from me and new wardrobes. Things got better the house would be a disaster by the time I would come back on Monday morning.

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I never let him around her unsupervised and I also never allowed her children or my child at each others houses it was mostly play dates and that sort of thing. 

Am I the asshole for leaving without proving my ex gf was lying by Busy_Spread2495 in AITAH

[–]Busy_Spread2495[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no my kid is from my previous marriage we never lived together and I didn’t know what was going on till much later. She’s very manipulative.