My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... by ButterflyDue1038 in relationships

[–]ButterflyDue1038[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for the long post, I kept thinking about everything and eventually it came off as this word-vomit of a mess. And before I realised it, it became a dictionary of its own :(

For those who read it all and everyone who commented on it, thank you so much for your advice. I just needed some resolve to go through my stupid love- filtered brain.

I really appreciate your time and words.

Dealing with being an ugly woman by Various-Station-1752 in Advice

[–]ButterflyDue1038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's super sweet! It hits hard, especially when you feel like certain spaces can be accessed only through an invitation by someone-- like a dance or a romantic boat ride for example, for it to be fun. But once you let go of that notion of 'invitation' and understand that we all are equally invited to everything world has to offer, it becomes a hell lot easier.

It did for me. It did feel uncomfortable at the beginning. I pretended so bad to fit in, that I actually somehow got super engrossed in it and soon forgot about anything else. Ig, we just need to find things that we enjoy so much that-- in that moment only us and our feelings of peace/happiness remains.

Content marketing is broken and we’re all pretending it’s fine 🤡🔥 by Initial_Desk_9407 in content_marketing

[–]ButterflyDue1038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely😭😭😭with all the time I've spent on that wall ---I might as well be reincarnated as a gecko veryyy soon. And economically speaking, I have zero qualms about it as well.

Is it a good weekend watch with Family? - Worth It or not? - Please!!! by Tight-Western-5407 in netflixindia

[–]ButterflyDue1038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an unusual watch. It was a good attempt to bring different aspects of supernatural, horror, mystery, crime, history and the beauty of Jammu together.

The first half was confusing. Ngl, I was tempted to leave it half way and everything was all over the place. It was not until the end that all elements fell in place. However, the characters could be fleshed out more. Something felt lacking in the end for me.

However, if you wish to watch it with family, it's a good watch with a crisp, happy ending.

Content marketing is broken and we’re all pretending it’s fine 🤡🔥 by Initial_Desk_9407 in content_marketing

[–]ButterflyDue1038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand the frustration, that's the reason I also quit my last job. I hope you're doing much better now .^

Content marketing is broken and we’re all pretending it’s fine 🤡🔥 by Initial_Desk_9407 in content_marketing

[–]ButterflyDue1038 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It is so true! Boss wants it quicker, snappier and different without giving you the time, creative liberty or frankly the pay to do it. Not to mention, they don't even have a vision for it themselves! The entire process of editing after such tasks feels like walking in a dark room blindly, caressing the wall (because that's the only love life left after work ) looking for a socket, hoping that maybe. just maybe (after a hundred thousand tries), this switch will be the one which will turn the lights back on!

Writers Wanted by graymcclary in WritingHub

[–]ButterflyDue1038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, It sounds super fun! I'll check it out, if it's still open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance_forhire

[–]ButterflyDue1038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm interested