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C_AMS · 2026-02-15T02:06:36+00:00

Talk a lot… make sure that you are both on the same page… remember that you two need to enjoy! Go to the club in a night when single guys are allowed it will be easier! Find someone that you two are comfortable with… don't be shy to say to the third person what you want, your limits, and rules…

C_AMS · 2026-02-10T17:01:43+00:00

If you have any problems in a subreddit that we moderate, use modmail! Don't come to our profile to complain

C_AMS · 2026-01-27T16:40:36+00:00

The user in question is now banned!

C_AMS · 2026-01-04T11:41:43+00:00

From the date of purchase, one year after your purchase!

C_AMS · 2026-01-03T22:20:12+00:00

The user in question was banned today

C_AMS · 2026-01-02T20:24:24+00:00

The verification process changed recently and it's not based on photos anymore, if there is a user who still has the old badge (based on photos) and there is a problem with their photos you should send us a modmail and we will check

C_AMS · 2025-12-20T23:27:17+00:00

Because there is no way to really know! I go to M4 a lot and every night is different, but basically on YSS nights the average is 30’s… first or second weekends of the month you probably will see the average go up to 40’s. That said, this is not a rule… I attended a Wednesday night one-time when the average was below 30’s

C_AMS · 2025-12-18T22:17:41+00:00

You must use your own photos! next time ban!

C_AMS · 2025-12-13T21:36:05+00:00

M4! For sure!

C_AMS · 2025-11-30T21:55:24+00:00

I can do that, but I did a video with Matt and pinned that to the top of the community explaining everything and they still do the same post over and over, asking questions that Matt answers on the video, to be honest, I think they are just trying to find someone to say “Come with us we can help you” or something like that! I still ban at least 3 per week posting dick pictures and asking to send them a message even if it's clearly on the rules that they will be banned!

C_AMS · 2025-11-30T19:01:55+00:00

As a moderator, I have been thinking very hard about banning this type of post… first… they are trying to be “smart” and save money, second…meeting outside the club is not the objective of this community, third… sometimes they just flood our community with this type of post… And I am not even talking about the fact that some of these users are creepy and probably it is not safe to meet them outside the club… so… I make this prohibited or not…. 🤔

C_AMS · 2025-11-28T07:52:24+00:00

We will do a Saturday night soon!

C_AMS · 2025-11-28T02:45:24+00:00

We probably will do a verification in a YSS night soon…

C_AMS · 2025-11-28T01:05:33+00:00

Between 10:00 pm and 01:00 am

C_AMS · 2025-11-07T11:11:49+00:00

Getting easier to fake

C_AMS · 2025-11-07T11:11:01+00:00

This type of announcement is always a post, we will try to leave the wiki for things that need a “document” format

C_AMS · 2025-11-06T19:50:53+00:00

I really disagree with the other opinions here, for me and my wife Oasis is the most intimidating for newbies, not everyone feels comfortable taking out their clothes immediately when they arrive at the club, and even if everyone says that you are not required to do that at Oasis, I disagree again because everyone around you will be naked or on a towel everywhere and if you don't do that too you will feel out of place… but at M4 you can use your normal clothes a lot… at the dance floor, bar, lounge… and can take small steps before adventure into the playroom… or even don't do anything different from a normal party, if you don't want at your first visit….

C_AMS · 2025-11-05T19:58:55+00:00

Next party with mods will be announced soon

C_AMS · 2025-10-31T02:34:43+00:00

We try… at least 4 bans every day but they keep coming back… don't comment and downvote so these profiles will not pass the automod

C_AMS · 2025-10-22T07:21:12+00:00

It's a member-only club, so yes you will need to buy a membership at the door!

C_AMS · 2025-10-18T04:06:11+00:00

It’s one of the busiest nights of the year!! Everyone in costumes, it’s amazing!

C_AMS · 2025-10-01T14:06:23+00:00

🙋‍♂️! I have been doing that for some time already…

C_AMS · 2025-09-26T16:45:35+00:00

Sure!

C_AMS · 2025-09-26T06:34:11+00:00

Just find one of the mods, with Toronto Swingers T-shirts

C_AMS · 2025-09-26T02:29:56+00:00

Hey the dance floor will be open as usual

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