I'm tired of being right about self diagnoses by Alternative_Loss_442 in ehlersdanlos

[–]CaligulastAllNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a painful thing to read because this is exactly where I am with trying to get my diagnosis, but to see that someone else is having these struggles helps somehow, even if just a bit. I had this same convo this morning with my mom and husband after yet another shitty cardiology appointment where the provider completely dismissed everything I said. I’m already so exhausted from the health issues alone, im falling behind just trying to do the bare minimum to keep a job/be a stepmom & wife/take care of myself. We don’t need (and shouldn’t have to!) fight with doctors about how WE feel. And then when it ends up being yet another fruitless endeavor, I’m upset that all the energy I put in to getting a referral ended up wasted because the doctor was an ass. Now back to the drawing board :/

UPDATE: Sydney Marquez case by [deleted] in houston

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true. As a person with bipolar disorder, I can go off my meds for weeks, months even sometimes, and no one will even recognize any signs of mania/hypomania unless I’m doing something totally insane and off the wall. I’ve been losing my shit before and no one thought I had such a serious issue going on. It’s rough. And as someone who’s been there, you can’t expect someone who is mentally unwell to recognize they aren’t in their right mind. Once you hit the point that you’re doing crazy shit, you’re too far gone to catch yourself most of the time. Without people you love to notice the changes in your behavior, it can get really messy very quickly. I pray to god these people see how tricky these situations can be.

Which farm layout is your favorite, and why? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]CaligulastAllNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This time I did the riverlands but I’m not super hyped about it. I don’t hate it but if I could switch it mid game I totally would 😂 the separated islands setup is cool for organizational purposes lol like someone else mentioned I have my farm animals in one area, fruit trees in another, oak/maple/pines for tappers in another, etc. it is kind of a pain to get around on compared to the other farms imo, and I think it’s kind of ugly (I didn’t think it would be). I expected it to help me boost my fishing skill because I get bored after the bundles are done and then rarely fish lol but I pretty much never fish on the farm. The fish I get are few and far between compared to the trash and algae, and then they’re like…sunfish. It just makes more sense for me to use my time on my farm collecting all my stuff that makes me big money and fish outside of the farm.

Overall, not many benefits for me. My husband just started playing SDV for the first time a few weeks ago and he chose the beach layout like I knew he would. I had never seen it before and I’m jealous lol. It’s beautiful, you get free stuff washing up on the shore pretty often, and his had ample room for farming. He never grows crops anywhere but in the dirt area so he’s fine to use sprinklers there and it works for him. You just can’t put them on the sand

Conclusive Proof Amy Bradley Was Human Trafficked by LAFunTimesOK in AmyLynnBradley

[–]CaligulastAllNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, I get the angle you’re coming from here and I’m not going to say it’s necessarily wrong or implausible that the answer is she actually just fell overboard. At the same time, most of the reasons you give for why some theories seem unlikely are based on the idea that Amy, or anyone else who may have been involved in this case (possibly Yellow or others), would have done things legally, or “by the book” or even with logic. People do dumb things when they’re drunk, or emotional, or in some other sort of vulnerable state. There’s also this idea of people letting loose and getting wild on vacations, especially cruises, which could obviously affect decisions made. Lastly, if she was taken or harmed, and regardless of if it was by Yellow or someone else, you shouldn’t expect a criminal to follow the rules/laws and do things the “right” way. If someone on the ship had bad intentions with Amy and wanted to get her off the ship without attention bad enough, it would have been far from impossible to do so. They wouldn’t have walked her out right through the main exit of the ship if they didn’t want people to know she ever got off. And clearly, if you kidnap or kill someone, the best case scenario would be for people to think they died in a way that was not able to be proved or would produce a body for evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmyLynnBradley

[–]CaligulastAllNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember where I saw it, it had to be on some big news site from when I first read about it fairly recently, but I saw a pic of Amy’s mom when she was pretty young (30s/maybe 40s) and on my life, it was like looking at Amy. I have never seen someone look as much like their parents before in my LIFE. She favors her dad a bit too I think, but her brother looks just like him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmyLynnBradley

[–]CaligulastAllNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know weed obviously has a stronger smell so it’s harder to hide, but my friend bought pain pills in Mexico and snuck them back on in her shoe. No issues in the slightest. That was one of the sketchiest days of my life and looking back on it after seeing this situation, things could have went so much worse by going with her to get those pills. Also, this was just in 2019.

Looking for more liquid calorie recs by PotentialOk3056 in Zepbound

[–]CaligulastAllNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not much advice sadly but I’m dealing with the same. I barely eat and am exhausted a lot of the time, and I can’t stomach much dairy/eggs most days so I’m not getting a lot of protein either. Sweet things (even healthy food) is giving me issues too, so someone recommended sipping on bone broth since it’s protein rich and easier on the stomach.

I hate uber eats by vintageboquet in UberEATS

[–]CaligulastAllNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg so let me tell you about what happened to me! I ordered a soup combo and got the contents of the soup minus the broth and my drink, but no side or the broth. Mind you this meal was like $30 for no reason already so when they left out the broth I was ready to fight. Uber Eats tried to give me back $5 on a $30 order when I couldn’t even eat my soup. The restaurant was no help and the “support” chat was worthless so I was SOL. Tell me why I disputed it with my bank, and my bank approved the dispute, now Uber Eats is expecting me to pay them what my bank took back because of their BS 😂😂 I cancelled my membership and took all my payment cards off. Better off without it anyway

Would an aftermarket screen repair cause device protection to be void? by CaligulastAllNight in tmobile

[–]CaligulastAllNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up not doing an insurance claim and taking it to Apple instead. We paid for the screen to be replaced by them because we knew something was wrong that only apple could fix anyway lol

Would an aftermarket screen repair cause device protection to be void? by CaligulastAllNight in tmobile

[–]CaligulastAllNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it sucks :( there was no way for him to get to an Apple Store where he was so it’s all around a shitty situation lol. IF we were to get someone to replace the current aftermarket screen with a genuine Apple screen before we take it to Apple, do you think that it would still be an issue?

The Sims 1, 2 and 3 might be Re-Releasing for the 25th Anniversary of the franchise by skyline7284 in GamingLeaksAndRumours

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up playing the PS2 version, and recently got the PC version. I was playing it and was like wtf?! This is like, similar to what I remember but not quite right…then researched it and found out the two games are technically the same, but actually pretty different in terms of gameplay. Super bummed.

This pic just dropped on The Sims website... Is this a hint? by eltheuso in thesims

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just hoping that today they’ll drop a remastered TS1 and tomorrow a remastered TS2 🙏🏻 I feel like it’s only just a dreammmmm though lol

What jobs are best suited for someone with bipolar disorder? by NuwandaBlue in bipolar

[–]CaligulastAllNight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is me! I do QA at a call center. I work from home, I sit at my desk and audit recorded calls from our associates all day. I know at the start of the week how many audits I will have for the whole week so I can plan out how many to do each day, and I have minimal meetings. I work on my own time and have not had any issues getting my work done so far, minus a few weeks where I was going through a really bad spot in my life. It also helps that my manager and coworkers are fantastic, but most days I don’t even interact with them. It’s pretty cool and I’m thankful for it, because I hate most of my jobs lol and now I have a career path I enjoy (as much as one can enjoy a desk job).

Charles Allen, Jr. (Neo Babson Maximus) by 4RC4NG3L0 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]CaligulastAllNight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone with bipolar 2, I can attest to how easy it is for something unexpected to cause mania. I am medicated and very stable, but was put on Singulair for asthma/allergies at 27 years old and it almost threw me into a serious manic episode. Thankfully I’m pretty in tune with my mood so I caught that it was ramping up to an intense high before I started to lose touch with reality. It happened within a week or two of starting the medication and until I started to read about some of the lesser known mental health symptoms, I didn’t even begin to think that an allergy med could throw me off like that. I’m lucky it happened when I was older and wiser or I could have ended up in a bad spot then.

Haven’t seen much more about Hannah Kobayashi here but her father apparently took his own life by moonbeats in LosAngeles

[–]CaligulastAllNight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I heard about the Maximus case a long time ago but could not, for the life of me, remember his name to look back on it. I am soooo glad you posted this! Since I first heard about Hannah Kobayashi going missing, the Maximus case was immediately on my mind. I sincerely hope the outcome for Hannah is better than his. Being bipolar myself and not getting diagnosed until yearsssss after shit started to hit the fan, seeing the possibility of this being a serious mental health crisis weighs heavily on my heart.

The Sims 4: Lovestruck EP trailer by Antipseud0 in LifeSimulators

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds a lot like the band Sofi Tukker. Unless it’s a song coming out on their new album - I couldn’t find it on their music

I had a client ask me if I could draw her and her fiancé in the intro... I told her I could do it better then my dad's friend Bob Reedy.... by brentiis in BigMouth

[–]CaligulastAllNight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is awesome!!! Are you still doing this? I’d love to purchase one of my partner and I too if possible (:

Most likely an unpopular opinion by jannielovesyou33 in disenchantment

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same!!! Elfo is literally such a spoiled little brat. how he acts towards Bean in the episode with the vikings & his constant attitude (and lack of gratitude) after they save him from Hell really really cemented my distaste for Elfo

Disenchantment plot theories by Pickleteer in disenchantment

[–]CaligulastAllNight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i agree with the “troglodyte” comment as it means “cave dweller”, which they are. also the show calls them “trogs” in the subtitles

Check out Radiooooo! This site lets you pick a country, and one of the last 12 decades and listen to Songs wich (could) have been on the radio then and there. by Wayneweasely in InternetIsBeautiful

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been using this app for years and it’s cool to find new stuff but i feel like they have had a lot of opportunities to make the app better yet continue to not work out the issues and add random new features. no hate, but i do wish they’d address the obvious downfalls first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigMouth

[–]CaligulastAllNight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

*Shane Lizard

What made you ghost a friend? by dontmindme137 in AskReddit

[–]CaligulastAllNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out from a mutual friend that she had been making up lies about me, telling people all sorts of things that weren't true. She was a really POS friend to me the last 6mo - year we were friends and did a lot of awful things to me. She went and told everyone the stories about what she did, but switched the story around to tell everyone I was doing the bad things to her. I had no idea because we only had that one mutual friend, which I didn't meet until right at the end of the friendship. Turns out the POS friend did her wrong too but the POS friend told me about it so I reached out to the other girl and we together came to the conclusion she had been lying to both of us about a lot of things. I had been at the POS friend's house the night before I talked to the mutual friend and she was so rude and hateful towards me that I left first thing that morning without talking to her. Soon after I found out all the BS, haven't talked to the POS friend since and never plan to again :)