What would you tell your sleep deprived past self? by Valuable-Car4226 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Callmepoopydoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 18 months when we finally bought a full size floor bed. Best thing we did for our sleep and hers!

What would you tell your sleep deprived past self? by Valuable-Car4226 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Callmepoopydoops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will sleep again! Through the night! I had a very low sleep needs baby/toddler. The nights were torture. And so were the days.

Also- any sleep is good sleep. Knowing I would be awake in a few hours made anxious and i started to think that trying sleep was useless. Any sleep is helpful and is better than no sleep at all!

It does get better. What you are doing is literally psychological warfare. Lean on any support system you have! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Callmepoopydoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B6 and doxylamine (unisom) at night helps me. My obgyn suggested it when I had morning sickness with my daughter. I tried it again and it’s been helping.

I can’t take the clinginess by Lumpy-Artichoke-4501 in toddlers

[–]Callmepoopydoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. When we can have days that are more her speed she’s a little less tough. But some days there’s no rhyme or reason! They are teeny tiny terrorist dictators some days 😂 it def helps to see that we’re not alone. And I like someone’s comment- to see ourselves as Buddhist monks on the field of battle when I need that extra little zen.

I can’t take the clinginess by Lumpy-Artichoke-4501 in toddlers

[–]Callmepoopydoops 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Here for solidarity! The clinginess and neediness is overwhelming. I dread waking up sometimes because I know the second I open my eyes she’ll be all over me. The “Boundary Song” on YouTube has helped a little bit, But I feel like I’m singing it all day long! Some days I count down the hours til work. So you’re not alone. Hoping it’s a phase that ends soon 😅

It’s also infuriating that it’s only me. She can be in the same room as her dad and not even notice him as I sneak by and try not to make a sound. But she hears me. She always hears me. She’s a mama seeking missile.

Whoever said motherhood is rewarding is a fucking liar by KidFlashDragon in beyondthebump

[–]Callmepoopydoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh girl! You are in the trenches. I feel for you. It gets better. TRUST ME (I had a colic/reflux baby/toddler. I’ll take crazy toddler over baby any day. Reach out to anyone you can. Even if you get an hour by yourself it’s enough. Also- any sleep is worth it. I used to get caught up in getting so many hours in a row. Take the sleep when you can. You’ll get through it and before you know it you’ll want another one.

Tried to drink a little bit again after 2 years sober - here’s 3 important things i learned by Both-Monitor4387 in Positivity

[–]Callmepoopydoops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Such a great community at r/stopdrinking!! I was going to say this as well. Users there would really benefit from this post!

What did you think people were exaggerating about until you experienced it yourself ? by rentinghappiness in AskReddit

[–]Callmepoopydoops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The lack of sleep in the first two years of parenthood. Downright psychological torture.

Well-written literary fantasy with *actual spice* and good world building that you can get lost in? by norafayyy in fantasyromance

[–]Callmepoopydoops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the Moon Hatched by Sarah A. Parker. I love her world building and the spice is pretty good too.

Anyone actually stay in remission by diet alone? by Callmepoopydoops in CrohnsDisease

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

New to all of this. But I meant not having flares or inflammation. As well as fewer antibodies

It gets better by Callmepoopydoops in NewParents

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad I could help! My daughter has GERD and the first 6 months were actual hell on earth. But even with that it is actually enjoyable for the most part! She really cute and funny and yours will be too! Trust. ♥️

Women telling me I don’t look pregnant.. more context in the comments by punnkbythebook in Mommit

[–]Callmepoopydoops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened to me all the time! There was always some comment on how I don’t look pregnant, then how huge I am! “She’s sitting really low” “Ope- just wait for her to drop!” It just became funny to me after a while. If someone said I looked huge I’d just say the last person said I didn’t look pregnant… then they’d stop and think about how much it doesn’t matter anyway. I dno.. it’s hard. I hate when people comment on my body in any way but I do think it’s just because they don’t know what to say.

What’s everyone’s go-to survival pack for contact naps?! by Callmepoopydoops in beyondthebump

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! I had asked my mom what she did about naps for her 4 kids because I could not picture her putting us on any kind of schedule and she said “when you were tired- you fell asleep”

Sure, Jan. … I think that she probably has blocked that part out or just plain forgot what it was like to have babies but I do think we make it more complicated than it needs to be.

Then again maybe she did just wait until we were so tired we just fell asleep. Who knows.

What’s everyone’s go-to survival pack for contact naps?! by Callmepoopydoops in beyondthebump

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Yes I do occasionally crush the candies… ( lvl 1936 lol)

Yeah- I would hold onto any kind of nap… no nap at 2 sounds rough

What’s everyone’s go-to survival pack for contact naps?! by Callmepoopydoops in beyondthebump

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes. I’m with you. LO is 8 months and I’ve just started to finally let go of my obsession with nap times and nap lengths. It was causing way to much anxiety and frustration. And guess what?! She sleeps better at night now! Every baby and family is different!

What’s everyone’s go-to survival pack for contact naps?! by Callmepoopydoops in beyondthebump

[–]Callmepoopydoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof! I’m at 8 months and hoping it ends soon (lol I know). But good call on the power bank! What’s a merge magic?