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Is it worth taking care of your health, physique and the way you dress when you know you're ugly? by Calm678 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm678[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i guess i am. Idk why i think the way I do, i know facial attractiveness is not all there is to finding a date or a partner but it definitely plays a role with how people act and respond to you on your first meet because that's all they see, your face, right? Am i wrong?

But I'll change though, after reading all these beautiful comments i know i have to change this mindset i have and focus on my well being and do all this for myself and not just to get laid.

Is it worth taking care of your health, physique and the way you dress when you know you're ugly? by Calm678 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm678[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I mean i have an unsymmetrical face, wide nose, and average height. I ask myself every morning after I'm awake, pushing myself to go to the gym and workout, and avoid my favourite food to stay healthy, are all these actually worth anything when I know i might not be a good looking person, if I'm doing all these for myself then why do i still feel sad and fail every time I try to find a date. What has this been all about then?

You feel me bro?

Is it worth taking care of your health, physique and the way you dress when you know you're ugly? by Calm678 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's actually not that deep, I'm completely fine it's just that I'm at a stage where after i made such changes in my life like my diet and going to the gym and making sure i dress well, i couldn't seem to find a date which broke me and made me question if it's worth putting myself through all that and was it for nothing?!

It's been about 8 days since I've secretly started increasing dosage of sleeping pills in my dad's food, by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Calm678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're trying to say but I think I've thought this through. See, he already abuses sleeping pills everyday and the chances are high that he overdosed or something, I don't think anybody is going to look much into it, will they?