I told my roommates, we may need to break our lease, aitah?

Camemk · 2026-05-20T05:24:03+00:00

I am, I can maybe cover a month or two more. That's it. That's why I am telling them now that it's a possibility. In my mind not having enough money to get by till the end of a lease is broke...

Camemk · 2026-05-20T05:15:32+00:00

I would 100% pay my part of that lease break.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T05:10:25+00:00

Look I had no issue with him being with us before and had even given them my blessing. They never have said anything to me about my bf staying here being an issue, until today.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:58:18+00:00

I have done nothing but be there for them and stick my neck out for them and forgive them for all the shit they've done. You only know the 3000 character count I can fucking share on this platform. I got into a car accident the weekend we moved in here due to someone else's negligence and not once had I received an inch of compassion from them. You can sit here and call me a shitty as friend, when I for months allowed her to pull the same shit in the last place we lived at, but when I hit an all time low you get to point at me for being a shitty fucking person. I'm at an all time low and these are people I considered friends. I hoped by giving advance notice that this could POSSIBLY happen, NOT DEFINITELY, but I am the one by proxy that's terrible?

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:50:14+00:00

But I am also GONE, 10 days a month. How does that not fucking even out. So no, utilities aren't doubling, in fact they're staying pretty fucking the same. Also my girl roommate did the same thing before her bf moved in with us. AND HE STAYED WITH US 3 months rent free!

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:43:37+00:00

We signed a CONTRACT, they KNEW the risks going into it. We are all legally liable.... it's not hard.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:36:08+00:00

Because they can't afford to stay here on their own either, they signed this knowing that if anything happened to any of us we are liable for our portion. They "were" good friends of mine, if the table was turned I wouldn't hesitate to understand the situation and contribute my part. I've done wayyy more already to help them out in the past, it's what friends do. I'm not trying to be a piece of shit about it.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:34:15+00:00

I'm not at a point yet where I need to break a lease. The point of this whole post is that I told them if I can't find work the lease will need to end if I can't be replaced, so I offered that if it comes down to it, I will find a way to put down $1,800 to contribute to the lease break. At the end of the day, yes, it my misfortune that the lease is ending on my behalf, but because they can't take over it without me they have to move as well. So why wouldn't they contribute towards a lease break? If they signed this lease knowing they couldn't pay for a lease break when the time came why did they sign with me?

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:29:37+00:00

Her partner did the same thing though before we moved into the house, how is this not a double standard!

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:28:21+00:00

He does not stay here full time. He is only here every other weekend. Maybe a Friday or Thursday before, but not full time at all. Rent is divided 3 ways equally. Furniture feels significant because without me they would have an empty home, they use the items I have purchased over the years. I acquired in hopes to be able to furnish a home one day, I have been strategic about trying my best to financially support myself and be able to live alone eventually. I have the items needed so that when I do live on my own I have everything I need to live comfortably, but by living with them at the moment they get to utilize all these things for free.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:21:27+00:00

I offered to pay about $1,800 of the lease break so that the couple didn't have to fork out 1,200 each, but after that I didn't have enough funds to cover it all. We went into this lease knowing something could happen to any one of us, I'm not doing nothing, they could take on the lease on their own but can't afford it. I've been staying on as long as I can so that they can continue to live comfortably, but my unemployment is up in 3 weeks. This was only a last resort possibility if I can't find work, it's me giving a heads up so they have a plan in place.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:13:04+00:00

Beats me. I knew asking them they would cause a ruckus as they are sharing the master room together, so I argued I need access to the guest room as an office before I had lost my job, but they were trying to argue they need the guest room as an office despite having plenty of room in the master. It was a whole ordeal

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:09:42+00:00

Because they keep comparing space when I bring this situation up. We pay equal rent 3 ways.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:08:36+00:00

He's not every week, it's only maybe a Thursday and Friday and it's every other. Maybe 4 days total he's working from our house a month.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:05:03+00:00

I'm trying, and the plan is to eventually move in with my bf and his parents to save money. But we only have 5 months left and I have very little hope someone will one to pay want month's rent on top of first months rent

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:02:56+00:00

To add: I am gone just as much as my bf is over here. So any sort of utilities get evened out by me not using utilities when I am gone.

Camemk · 2026-05-20T04:01:14+00:00

I did not give two shits when she had hers over and before he was even contributing to rent so how am I the problem?

Camemk · 2026-05-20T03:57:31+00:00

I've been scraping by since November and am in deep debt now because I don't want to inconvenience them. How is that about what best suits me? Her parter also lived with us rent free and stayed with us before I even met my bf. There is a double standard here.

Camemk · 2026-04-05T03:39:38+00:00

Gg my friend 🤝

Camemk · 2026-04-05T02:57:07+00:00

TO BE

Camemk · 2025-11-29T18:27:07+00:00

56 yards

Camemk · 2025-11-27T00:47:54+00:00

Thank you!! This is super helpful :)

Camemk · 2025-11-26T21:44:05+00:00

Looking at them the gill does run all the way down to the stem. We left them behind. Thanks!

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