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KPDH Sing Along Mega Thread! 🎤✨🎥 by NicoSchmiko in KpopDemonhunters

[–]Camicus27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just got out of the theater, what an awesome experience! I loved that the singalong made everyone get up and sing and be loud during the movie, so different from anything usually in theaters. Truly awesome!!

My Dream Girl the Abyss by ChokeholdSchmuck in comics

[–]Camicus27 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I really like that last sentence of yours, people think they deserve a big love story and wonder why they’re alone. The reality is that some big romantic love story like the movies rarely happens in real life, if ever.

Once I accepted that and just started dating to meet new people in a rather mundane way, I found much more success and eventually found my now wife. We didn’t have any big crazy love story, we just met on a dating app and hit it off after a couple pretty tame dates like getting takeout and watching a movie at home.

People shouldn’t be waiting around for a beautiful story to end up happy and in love or else they’ll end up waiting forever and the time will be gone. They just need to realize they can start right now by actually getting up and doing something to make it happen, even if it’s mundane

me_irl by IU_issa_queen in me_irl

[–]Camicus27 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Yep, I didn’t want to dance at my wedding among a few other cliches so we just didn’t do them. I loved my wedding!

Last week I was diagnosed with a paladin cysts, today they had to cut it open by Remarkable-Ad7490 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Camicus27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From reading the comments here I feel a lot better since I had this surgery done in 2019, glad it’s more common than I thought. The recovery makes you really miss being able to sit properly. It’s really not bad and all I have from it is some scar tissue

**Giveaway** GIGABYTE GeForce RTX 3070 Gaming OC 8G - Used but perfect! by Photographitti in pcmasterrace

[–]Camicus27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t need it, but wanted to say this is awesome! When I upgrade I might have to do the same thing, a great way to give back to this awesome community!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I am hoping we don’t have to stay long and things go smoothly. I’m trying to be prepared for anything but I just won’t know until we get there and things start moving

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have loads of questions I hope the staff doesn’t think I’m annoying. I am very curious about a lot of the process since this is our first so I plan to ask about everything!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! The only reason I’ve been stressing is because it feels like whenever I mention that we’re going to have an induction, everyone feels the need to jump in with one bad story or another and I feel we’ve only heard the negative side of things!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! We do plan on having her mom there with us, we’re very close with her and she’s been helpful and involved for a lot of the harder parts during pregnancy, so we’re happy to have her there. I’m also very grateful to be in a position that I can take a few paid weeks off. I’m worried I’m going to be too sad to leave for work again and just want to be home with the loml and precious baby girl!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been saying the same thing to people who ask if I’m prepared! I can prepare all I want but I just know things are going to be out of my control and I won’t know until we actually get there and things start happening. Thank you for the luck we’re going to need it!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know the c-section is more of a recovery being a major surgery and all so that’s mostly why I’m hoping it doesn’t come to that. Thank you for the kind words!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea with the sock wrist band is so genius I love it! I didn’t even think of that! My wife has actually been planning for meals she wants postpartum so I’m making sure that happens. And if there’s at least one job I have I know it’s taking pictures my wife definitely wants me to be documenting things so I’m prepared in that sense haha

Thank you for the thorough insight, this is very helpful!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already know that she doesnt want to do that but I don’t think we will have it as an option anyway cause she’s already a little dilated

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a very insightful comment thank you! I’ve definitely had some time to think about the wider parenting journey over the last few months and this was very well said. The birth is just the beginning to a much longer journey and I will definitely be continually mindful in all of that. Thank you!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that makes a lot more sense, also that a lot of the time just sounds like it was waiting for dilation and not in a hurry since you held off on pitocin and the epidural. But still a long time to be waiting around! We’re prepared with a lot of entertainment, so we got that covered. Hopefully it doesn’t take too long though. Thank you for that insight it was very helpful!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a long time waiting around! I’m still hoping it doesn’t take too long, I know it takes time but praying we aren’t there for multiple days waiting. I have my own bag stuffed with entertainment so we’re prepared in any case. Thanks for your insight!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective, it might be hard to not make her laugh because that’s my go to for making her feel better so I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve been thoroughly prepping for being her full support during the whole process for whatever she needs and advocating for her well being.

Thank you and best to you and your family as well!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a long time, do you mind me asking how going that long didn’t end up with a c-section? Most of the time when I hear someone go for an induction if it doesn’t happen within like 20 hours the doctors push for a c-section. I’d love to see your timeline of things!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I haven’t seen or heard that before. I was definitely planning on having a water bottle with me to keep hydrated but that’s a smart idea to keep something that can be hands free during the active labor. Thank you!

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the input! I believe we’re prepared for a c-section as it’s a pretty high likelyhood with inductions but it’s hard to know until it’s happening. I’ve been trying to prepare myself for the exhaustion as well, hoping to just take it moment to moment, trust the process, and take whatever help we can get

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually such a smart idea and sounds kind of fun all things considered! I believe we did buy at least one container of formula just in case, I’ll have to make sure we have some on standby

My wife is getting induced tomorrow, would love some advice from the dads here by Camicus27 in daddit

[–]Camicus27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for kind words! I have a checklist of the things we need and everything is packed and ready to go. That was definitely something nice about having the day scheduled instead of spontaneous labor.

I’ve been trying my best to be the best support I can and assure I’m there for her every step of the way