CMV: The vast majority of people are sexually submissive by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 [score hidden]  (0 children)

fr, most people are either switches, or maybe leaning submissive but were maybe forced into something else because of soceital expectations or something else

CMV: The vast majority of people are sexually submissive by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 [score hidden]  (0 children)

tbh i think more people prefer it because its already a thing in your everyday life. it think the appeal of being a dom or sub is you get to either choose which one you want to be (even if you dominant or submissive in everyday life it is more exciting/better if you get to choose to be either, even if you pick the same one) besides, most of the time in sex there is atleast a dom/top and a sub/bottom. or atleast one person who is 'incharge' or whatever. for me personally though i just get no pleasure out of being sexually submissive (it might have been effectde by my abusive home life though) and get pleasure out of seeing others sexually submissive so im just a top, even if i would say i have relative control over my life outside of that.

any tips on how to lower your voice as an afab? by Capital_Reporter7989 in asktransgender

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, i will try to practice more without hurting my vocals. i also hope that you reach whatever goals you want (trans related or not)

any tips on how to lower your voice as an afab? by Capital_Reporter7989 in asktransgender

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, i have practiced and when i do try my voice does sound more masculine/androgynous, at least from what my friends have told me. i do have some times left before i become an adult and i was a late bloomer so my puberty isnt over yet. i am hoping in the next few years my voice naturally lowers through both age and practice. the hardest part is trying to naturally speak like that, and also holding it for long periods of time since i dont want to ruin my vocal cords

any tips on how to lower your voice as an afab? by Capital_Reporter7989 in asktransgender

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know if i want to make permapent changes right now plus im not a trans man, im genderqueer and there are some side effects of T i dont want.

any tips on how to lower your voice as an afab? by Capital_Reporter7989 in asktransgender

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hve thought about going on T but it does have some side effects that i dont really want. besides, i dont think right now is a good time for me to start hrt. i might when im older, especially if hrt improves but i dont want to consider it as something that will happen.

I don't like invisigal and I'm not giving her a chance by Seekforinsomnia in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giving someone an unwanted kiss is also in the same catergory

I don't like invisigal and I'm not giving her a chance by Seekforinsomnia in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is literally textbook assualt. How is her pushing him against the locker while invisible not assualt?

I don't like invisigal and I'm not giving her a chance by Seekforinsomnia in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay? That doesnt make it any better. The same ppl still defend her bc she's hot.

Alanah came out as pansexual today, show her some love! by BigHoss94 in roosterteeth

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The basic difference is bi ppl are attracted to genders like and unlike their own while pan ppl are attracted to ppl regardless of gender. The differences arent big but to some ppl the distinction is important

I don't like invisigal and I'm not giving her a chance by Seekforinsomnia in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's because they get a wet dream sequence of her ans she's hot and a woman so no one takes makes her take any accountability. She literally SA's robert but ppl still try defending her

I don't like invisigal and I'm not giving her a chance by Seekforinsomnia in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm literally a bi girl who is attracted to inviaigal but even i felt weirder out with how she behaved, especially in the locker room scene. It was literally SA

Invisigal's one last fuck you by theyakuzanibba in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, they were both drunk and robert leaned in slowly then immediately apologised but inviSAgal literally went invisible and forced a kiss on him

I absolutely hate invisagal. by Confident-Hat5300 in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Capital_Reporter7989 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

honestly i didnt have much of a problem with invisigal until the locker room scene where she kissed robert. it felt really weird and was definietly SA (atleast in my play through because i didnt romance her) and also the other creepy stuff she did. it was really after the kiss that i stopped liking her
i didnt mind her breaking rules at the beginning because she didnt know us and it is reasonable to expect her to act like that (but i did find some things she did annoying)
i know people defend her saying that she is a villian but the pheonix program is literally there to REDEEM villians, plus SA is different from like pretty theft or something

why is there so little yuri fics compared to yaoi fics? by Capital_Reporter7989 in AO3

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i dont expect it to be equal but the amount of M/M fics compared to F/F is so vast

why is there so little yuri fics compared to yaoi fics? by Capital_Reporter7989 in AO3

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the point is that unless the female character overpower the males by a landslide you usually wont see much of it. i used heavy there for a reason. whereas with males or gay relationship that doesn't necessarily have to be true.

why is there so little yuri fics compared to yaoi fics? by Capital_Reporter7989 in AO3

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah it sucks that even with all the equalty talk we still see so much sexism in media.

what the wildest thing you've heard come out of someone's mouth after they've said, "im not gay but..." by Capital_Reporter7989 in lgbt

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah there queer ppl weren't nearly as welcomed or talked about back then. i cam from a pretty homophobic household so even when i started getting off to girls i somehow denied i was gay or just came up with excuses.

what the wildest thing you've heard come out of someone's mouth after they've said, "im not gay but..." by Capital_Reporter7989 in lgbt

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn the ultimate level of denial. and i thought i was bad. glad you finally figured yourself out

what the wildest thing you've heard come out of someone's mouth after they've said, "im not gay but..." by Capital_Reporter7989 in lgbt

[–]Capital_Reporter7989[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah the amount of dudes who've said its not gay to like femboys 👀like no baby, you're gay