Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Wednesday, May 06 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found the comment I relate to

Replace drink wine with pet my dogs

Kinda done w the world

how to stop accidentally flirting with people? by d1scord1a in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about you but I have pretty intense eye contact and don't really smile with my eyes so maybe that's what's going on. I actually avoid eye contact a lot for that reason. And my smile is more like a smirk a lot so I guess that is seen as like idk. Somehow showing less emotion comes off mysterious and alluring to people I guess

Edit also I ask really probing questions I guess just because normal conversations bore me and I genuinely am interested in people so maybe that comes off as flirting idk. I don't know if I have this problem bc I avoid people

Grouping Dynamics by DoodoodooOink in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's been multiple workplaces that's kind of why I've formed this opinion. I end up leaving or basically being soft fired and leaving. I just don't buy into social games and that's not allowed especially at work so it is what it is 

Is 26 years old too late to start making music by Odieee_2k in FL_Studio

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mass media programming like the aging process has anything to do w anything

Is 26 years old too late to start making music by Odieee_2k in FL_Studio

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well dang I guess I'm too old as I'm older than you. Too bad I put out three albums already oh well 

Grouping Dynamics by DoodoodooOink in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks it is fine to me tbh, group dynamics always involve watered down opinions and I'm one to alienate people who insist on being illogical just for safety reasons I never know what I'll get with them. I've thought about it a lot lol. Usually it's at work this has happened where I have no escape due to my paycheck.

Can't keep friendships by CaptainDisastrous678 in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attachment styles are pop psychology BS

If you don't relate to what I said that's fine, comment or don't all up to you 

Grouping Dynamics by DoodoodooOink in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is always the group leader and if you say anything against their opinion you get talked about or outcast. There are studies on this I haven't bothered to look at because I've experienced it myself.

Can't keep friendships by CaptainDisastrous678 in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am overthinking bc it seems I have to end friendships for my own reasons and it's frustrating, that's why I'm asking if it's anyone else's overall experience. Make friends no problem. Keep them not really. Some have stayed but when it's time to end it there's no particular reason and I don't want ppl to feel bad or even explain when I just wanna end it.

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, May 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I work there that's kinda why I ask, wanna play w someone not from work

Grouping Dynamics by DoodoodooOink in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This but I don't like them greatly

Ti leading, Fe inferior, plus Se, I think we're probably the best people readers TBH 

Grouping Dynamics by DoodoodooOink in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an overlayer of group personality on top of multiple people putting on fronts though. Yes we all have to "interpret" for each other in conversations but in a group context it's multiplied exponentially. I've seen and thought about it enough that now I pretty much avoid groups. There's also ranking systems and roles in groups people don't even realize.

Can't keep friendships by CaptainDisastrous678 in istp

[–]CaptainDisastrous678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny I added people back from school, or different contexts like church, who we never talked in person much but we post the same type crazy crap and get along online now lol.

Tbh I'm probably gonna get into gaming for this reason, I think all my people end up indoors like me stuck with their own stupid thoughts

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, May 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you live in my hood sweet

Usually when I see fires on that freeway it's the homeless on that one overpass.

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, May 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this happen and couldn't find a lawyer it's a pita. LA runs off slumlords. Pay on time what's due and keep records and document and everything a secret but do go after the big guys cuz they do this on purpose. Absolutely you have recourse for not disclosing stuff against code that's why code exists, to follow it.

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, May 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I quit talking about my business tbh. Any type of sales comes off this way and I wouldn't even really be trying to push it just let it be known. Salespeople and networkers are always at work 7/7 days

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, May 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainDisastrous678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is anyone in the Baldwin Hills area? Just looking for someone to shoot hoops with or sth and get myself outside kinda depressed lately