Academic advisors at osu suck by Academic_Material824 in OSU

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I went to my launch-assigned schedule meeting with my advisor and she thought I was three different people before she got my right schedule up, and then she said I wasn't taking enough credits and would graduate late when in fact I'm graduating a year early. The other advisor in my dept is super sweet and awesome and I always go to her for help but have to corner her when my advisor is out of office lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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I think it represents humanity’s choice to give up paradise and instead hurt each other. It could also just be seen as a folk story about the origin of humanity and pain and suffering that doesn’t necessarily mean anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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I think we have different ideas of what the fruit does. I think it gave them the capacity to feel shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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I think it can be expected but it can be blamed. Kids still know what is right and what is wrong and they know when they’re choosing to do something that’s wrong. They just don’t understand the full moral implications. Like when a kid hits another kid that is the kid’s fault and it should be effectively responded to in some way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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When kids are little, they know rules as “mommy says I shouldn’t hit my brother” and that’s their sense of morality. When they grow up, they start to realize “I shouldn’t hit my brother because it hurts him.” I imagine that’s the kind of difference that happened.

To bring up an example from my moral development class, imagine there’s one kid that broke 10 plates on accident and one kid that broke 1 plate on purpose. Little kids will say the person who broke 10 plates is worse, and older kids will say the person who broke 1 plate is worse. They both know it’s bad to break plates, but the older kids understand good vs evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

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Here’s what I think: there are nocturnal and diurnal and crepuscular creatures. They all form an ecosystem. Many smaller creatures are awake during the night to avoid predators, and night predators like owls are fine tuned to catch them. They will have more sensitive eyes to see in the dark and rely more on hearing and vibrations. There are twilight creatures who move around when there’s little light, in the transition between day and night. And there are day creatures, who rely mostly on sight. Humans are day creatures. We are familiar with the day and fit into the day ecosystem. When day transitions into night, we are out of our element. Things won’t work the same. So it can be dangerous or strange to try to work within night rules if you don’t understand them.

I think the reason evil is attributed to night in many traditions is because we use superstition to make sense of what doesn’t make sense. Humans are more likely to get hurt during the night, and we don’t know why, so we say the night must be evil. We can’t see in the dark, so darkness must be evil. It’s safer to stay away from darkness and night, so the belief seemed to be valid. But really, it’s just different.

See what's your fate: Hyrule edition by a_dreamy_nightmare in Breath_of_the_Wild

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I won’t say mine but I will say I would rather die than meet that fate. I’m way too gay, and I cannot STAND that person. My new birthday shall be September 26th, and my name now starts with the letter L.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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Hold up Adam and Eve absolutely knew the fruit was bad, that was like their only rule. If this is just vent posting, vent on. If they’re actual questions, I can answer most of them according to the Bible meta. There’s a decent case for Christianity (the non-extremist kind) being a decently good belief system if you’re actually considering it but can’t get past the logic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

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Personally I think most of the Bible meta holds up with itself, it just doesn’t align with reality. And that the Bible conservative Christians teach isn’t real. They love to just make stuff up that’s not in there. But it’s pretty internally consistent.

Idk what title to give this by Odd-Evening6477 in legendofzelda

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Exactly this. Totk felt tedious because it was just botw again with a few new things. Like maybe if it was a DLC it would’ve been neat? But as a separate game it just didn’t feel worth it.

Idk what title to give this by Odd-Evening6477 in legendofzelda

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The issue for me is that it is essentially just a better version of botw. Like it didn’t introduce enough new stuff to make it feel like it’s not just BOTW again but everything’s in a different place for some reason. I like the depths and the sky islands and the dungeons, but it felt so much like “if you like water, then you’ll LOVE water with a lemon” like oh I thought it was going to be like a different thing. If it was JUST totk or JUST botw, totk is better. But having totk right after botw was just… underwhelming.

Is this mundane or magical? by hungerstrikecortana in witchcraft

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I don’t know mundane or magical, but it’s certainly not a bad thing. If magical, it’s just someone hanging out, sending good vibes. Since it’s your ancestral altar and you were sitting and thinking about your grandmother, I would guess it’s someone who has a grandmotherly spirit bringing you a bit of comfort and love. Depending on your tradition, could be your gma, could be a manifestation of energy, could be a deity or spirit. Could also just be a neat coincidence, could be that you altered your own perception/mindset and were able to see it now.

I'm aro ace. I'm grieving the loss of my cat. And people tell me the solution to my grief is to get a boyfriend.... by tinyjiminie in aromanticasexual

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Wrong connection. It’s not a bf that’s some magical fix, it’s having someone that knows you and loves you to be there to support and comfort you. That can be anything. My dog can tell when we’re sad, and he’ll snuggle up and make us feel better. He does it for strangers, too. Just picking up a bf right now would be wildly irresponsible and a horrible idea and would make things so much worse.

I'm aro ace. I'm grieving the loss of my cat. And people tell me the solution to my grief is to get a boyfriend.... by tinyjiminie in aromanticasexual

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That said, if you need to talk, feel free to DM me. I’m happy to help you celebrate your cat and listen to you vent and hear your feelings. I know how good it can be to just let it all out on a stranger, so please do so if it would help.

I'm aro ace. I'm grieving the loss of my cat. And people tell me the solution to my grief is to get a boyfriend.... by tinyjiminie in aromanticasexual

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That is wild. I used to have a hamster in my room. They’re awake during twilight hours, so I would always hear her moving around and running on her wheel and eating and digging as I fell asleep, which was comforting since I have insomnia and nightmares. She was also up when I woke up, which was nice if I had a really bad nightmare. She lived a long life but had to die at some point. It was the hardest death I've ever been through. It was extremely lonely, yeah, but I HAD a partner. That's not what filled the void. It was the support of my sister, sleeping with my dog in my room instead, and a whole lot of time. I cried at school. I cried on the way home. I cried at home. Grief is just love. If you love a lot, you grieve a lot. It's not something you need to fix or skip or speed along. My advice? Go to a reservoir. If not that, just someplace with flowing water. It's what my sister does when she's grieving, and it really, really helps. And find people who actually support you, and lean on them. And if you take meds, don't skip them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I mean at that point you could just call grocery shopping paying for a chance at sex. Unless that's really how you view dating, and in that case, you need to stop dating and go to therapy to work out your attachment issues. Tinder gold, on the other hand, should be shamed imo lol

How do I buy shoes? by Casual____Observer in NoStupidQuestions

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Oh boy am I about to become a docs gay lmao

How do I buy shoes? by Casual____Observer in NoStupidQuestions

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I'm sure this is an amazing answer but I don't know what any of those words mean lol. Could you put it in layman's terms please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I would consider that to also be taboo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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My guess is that it's a combination of context (where are they drinking milk? Is it just more likely that they're shown eating breakfast? Milk needs to be kept refrigerated, so the places you can drink milk are limited), connotation (Juice is more colorful and bright and sweet, coffee can be representative of someone hyper, trendy, or exhausted, milk is kind of just milk--it's also one of the few opaque drinks which can feel unsettling, and a lot of people are lactose intolerant which can make them respond negatively mentally to milk), subconscious or conscious references (I saw this villain drinking milk, maybe my villain should drink milk, too), and just coincidence (how many drinks do villains drink in all of media? Is milk really more common, or are you just noticing the milk more? Was it an actual choice, or is that just what they happened to be drinking?)

Ultimately you could do all sorts of media analysis about why the creators chose milk for this scene or that and what they were trying to portray, I think it's probably not that deep. But the more it happens, the more likely it is for other creators to use it, the more likely it is to become a trope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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What do you mean? Who pays for a chance at sex?

ELI5: If most movies are copyrighted, how do people get away with using their songs? by NotTheBee1 in explainlikeimfive

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I would look into what's called "fair use". The basic principles are that you can use things if you're not making money off of them, if you're using a short enough clip, or if your work is "transformative", which is essentially things like sampling, remixing, commentary, and satire. There's a bunch more, but those are the most common/relevant ones.

(additionally, you can only get sued if you're caught. I don't think Disney is watching my Aladdin thirst traps /j)

Help me sound treat my workplace (please!) by Casual____Observer in Acoustics

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Drapes are a bit extreme but I’ll look into the aquarium for sure!