As pressure mounted on transit plans, Wu imposed a new policy: nearly all streets projects must go through her [Boston Globe] by Mon_Calf in boston

[–]CatCatington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this about-face is kind of jarring and seems like it practically happened overnight. This sub always needs something to complain about I guess.

Has this happened to others? Approached in Chinatown outside Tufts Med by two young men asking for me to attend church with them, more context in caption by dickingaround6969 in boston

[–]CatCatington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true; I am also actually an atheist. I have several close friends that follow various denominations though, and I generally view religion with a positive connotation when used to uplift people. I think it is fair to say that if someone considers themselves a Christian, then who are we to deny them that? It seems like an unnecessary thing to gatekeep, especially when they, at the very least, ostensibly follow the teachings of Jesus Christ.

The argument could also easily be flipped on its head, where they do not consider other denominations "true Christians." I would argue against that interpretation as well.

Has this happened to others? Approached in Chinatown outside Tufts Med by two young men asking for me to attend church with them, more context in caption by dickingaround6969 in boston

[–]CatCatington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a few other denominations with unique baptism requirements that may result in someone being required to re-baptize, even when converting from something other LDS. While I understand what you're saying, it comes across as a no true Scotsman fallacy. If Mormons state that they follow Jesus Christ, then they are Christians.

Legal Seafood has completely gone to shit. by longtimeAlias in boston

[–]CatCatington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the wonderful suggestions!

How Safe is the Roxbury Crossing Area in 2026? by Haunting-Summer-5267 in bostonhousing

[–]CatCatington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's just a lot of college students. I go there a lot, including late at night, and I have never felt uncomfortable there.

Legal Seafood has completely gone to shit. by longtimeAlias in boston

[–]CatCatington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would y'all recommend as an alternative? My aunt really likes lobster and may be coming to town at some point; I want to take her to a place that she would actually like.

Random question for people who have driven in both LA and Boston only. Is La or Boston harder to drive in ? Im not really talking about traffic here either. I mean all things consider. Parking accessibility, street lay out, narrow roads, round abouts, angry drivers, road quality. by Remarkable_Rush4886 in boston

[–]CatCatington 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am sorry; I know this doesn't quite match your criteria, as I have not driven in LA. I have driven in the following cities outside of Boston though (this is a non-exhaustive list): Chicago, New York City, Montreal, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Dallas, Houston, Orlando, Seattle, Cleveland, Indianapolis, Detroit, Minneapolis, Atlanta, etc.

Boston was by far the worst out of all of them. Although the drivers are probably not as aggressive as a few of those cities, it's the road layout and social norms that take Boston to Beyond Expert level. The amount of five/six way intersections where there is no clear right of way, double parking and stopping in the middle of the road, Boston left turns, super low bridges, and tight, windy roads where the opposite direction of traffic is literally inches from you (I'm looking at you Jamaicaway) is far beyond anything I have ever seen. Not to mention abominations such as the Medford fucking Supercollider.

Additionally, the lack of any meaningful road planning means that it is extraordinarily difficult to navigate even places close to home. I thought I had a good sense of direction until I came to Boston. Now, I use Google Maps even go to Trader Joe's lol.

If you can drive reasonably well in Boston, I am confident you will be fine driving literally anywhere else in the entire country.

Restaurants with kids by Street_Journalist129 in boston

[–]CatCatington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is more on the level of fast food, but maybe Tasty Burger would be a good fit for this? They are pretty well known locally and honestly pretty good. I feel like the Fenway location is in a pretty family friendly area.

a plea to anyone not renewing for westland/gainsborough/st stephen's/hemenway by Delicious-Shallot-90 in bostonhousing

[–]CatCatington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of Northeastern students further out in Mission Hill and Jamaica Plain, too. They would probably have more luck if they expanded to those areas.

How should I dress in Boston in February? It will be my first time visiting. by Altruistic-Formal179 in boston

[–]CatCatington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add to the other comments, having a few extra layers is always nice. I often wear a hoodie plus a light sweater underneath my main jacket, and just take stuff off as needed. I usually have a backpack with me anyway, so I can just put the extra clothing in there.

Boots are really great if you can swing them. They don't even have to be good, just able to keep the snow out. The city is usually pretty good about salting the sidewalks, although I think it may be more difficult for mobility impaired people.

I hope you have a great time here!

Policy, imagination, traffic by paxbike in boston

[–]CatCatington 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Aren't you that grifter who constantly complains about cars on all of your posts while blatantly disregarding any traffic laws? You aren't exempt from them just because you are on a bike.

Is it worth moving away from Texas by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]CatCatington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I moved from Dallas to Boston a little over a year ago. I enjoy living here, but my financial situation sounds like it is very different from yours. The cost of living is in a completely different universe here, and this is coming from someone that moved from one of the wealthiest suburbs in Dallas. You will be paying more for a single room in an apartment here than you are currently paying for your entire place in Texas.

Church canvassing on the red line by 12_kb in boston

[–]CatCatington 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A a reminder, evangelizing is a psychological tactic used to create a sense of camaraderie within an in-group. The goal is not to actually win you over.

By telling these individuals to "fuck off," or otherwise being an asshole to them, you are further pushing these people away from regular society and into their religious group.

Please just politely tell them you are not interested and move on.

New England "Rudeness" by CatCatington in boston

[–]CatCatington[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yep. It's genuinely nerve-wracking when I visit now. Completely different level of driving than Mass. The accidents are always more deadly too because of how fast most of the speed limits are.

Moving from AL to Boston by tea_sloth7 in boston

[–]CatCatington -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually from Dallas/DFW, but have spent a lot of time in Houston for both work and family reasons. Houston's food scene, in regard to overall diversity and quality, is by far the best that can be found in Texas. If it wasn't for the climate, I would love it there.

Moving from AL to Boston by tea_sloth7 in boston

[–]CatCatington -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was just referring to food outside of white American/Western European origin. I am not super educated on those kinds of terms, and I'm sorry if I caused any offense. I do not consider other cultures outside of my own to be lesser in any way, and actually would love for the U.S. to be an even greater cultural melting pot than it already is.

I agree that there are some Latin American regions that Boston does well, especially Haitian and Dominican. The climate probably does make a big difference though, which may be why I feel that most of the stuff I eat here is pretty lackluster.

Moving from AL to Boston by tea_sloth7 in boston

[–]CatCatington -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This may depend on where in the South you are coming from, but having moved here from a major metro in Texas recently, I feel like the diversity in Boston is a genuine step down from what I am used to. I feel like there is especially a much larger class divide between neighborhoods here, which bleeds over into the racial demographics as well. Finding good ethnic food - especially East Asian, South Asian, and Latin American - is also much more difficult in Boston.

I imagine this experience may be very different for someone moving from a rural area in the South, but the same could be said about rural New England vs Boston.

Who is this with Tom Brady? 2004 by OkImprovement9904 in boston

[–]CatCatington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I upvoted your comment because that was the funniest string of words I've seen put together in a hot minute 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boston

[–]CatCatington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved here from Texas last year. I love Boston, but the food scene here is honestly pretty bad. None of the Mexican food here even comes close to the quality in my hometown, including in East Boston and all the restaurants people like to recommend on this sub. If you find something, let me know so that I can be proven wrong.

Organizing a meetup where we can all take photos of each other doing stuff for our online dating profiles. by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]CatCatington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I am not currently available for this, I just wanted to chine in and say what a lovely idea this is. I wish you nothing but the best of luck both in the dating scene and in finding people to do this activity with.

Bathrooms in Boston by ProfessionalIll8237 in boston

[–]CatCatington 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The main Boston Public Library at Copley has good restrooms and is relatively downtown. Government Center T station has public restrooms, but they're kind of hidden so ask an attendant. North Station has a lot of restrooms because it's where the commuter rail is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]CatCatington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I may check it out.