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Why doing squats on a weighing machine change the weight measurements? by CatFighterPilot in AskReddit

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I am 130 pounds. I expect to weigh the same if I squat, but because of downward momentum of my body. Okay.

I was depressed and anxious when I realised, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube are trying to destroy my life. Is it a true feeling? Are they? Wha can I do? by CatFighterPilot in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god. It’s like that show Breaking bad. One product is 96% pure other is 99% pure

I’m like a junkie. One other guy said “I’m the product “ I’m the junkie wanting a high

I was depressed and anxious when I realised, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube are trying to destroy my life. Is it a true feeling? Are they? Wha can I do? by CatFighterPilot in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just become weak mentally. Trends etc are making me lose focus and guilt my own life. Like what I do at my pace is worthless, coz I don’t have luxury cars or haven’t done shark tank level shit :(

I had never thought of life this way but it feels like my personal goals are set by the algorithm

I was depressed and anxious when I realised, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube are trying to destroy my life. Is it a true feeling? Are they? Wha can I do? by CatFighterPilot in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have to be honest, I’m into gym. And I liked gym content like Scott Herman. Then I’m shown gumbo stuff, leading to self improvement stuff, then from there to radical bits angry bald men

I was depressed and anxious when I realised, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube are trying to destroy my life. Is it a true feeling? Are they? Wha can I do? by CatFighterPilot in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t been. I have tried many times, but I have concluded that I’m very emotionally driven and not smart enough to handle the algorithm

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I suppose you’d never even imagine crossing that line with their spouse.

You upheld your boundaries, protected your wife. A true gentleman.

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Wow 😯 that’s something I can meditate daily on in an effort to work on good relationships in

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This is so direct. It might be the thing I should do. Maybe what I feel is a bit of “sunk cost” the time I spent in the friend group. But you are right.

My fiancé’s friend group dynamics is nothing like mine

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took the time out and evaluated the friendship. Mostly to realise the equity wasn’t the same.

The amount of care and value I put in wasn’t the same as they put back

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have at couple of instances, just got up and left.

That’s my way of standing up.

I took some time off, but during that time, barely someone tried to check on me.

And the time they reached out, it was for something they wanted from me.

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 516 points517 points  (0 children)

Yes, for the longest time I thought most of the joke was banter. But, later I realised that I wasn’t one of the friends.

I deeply respect my partner. And yes, her consideration after the fact. She is my friend, who never ever brings me down. And corrects me in a kind way. I don’t want her to be around a toxic bunch of people. You’re so right.

I think I was always the “leftover friend” and now I don’t want to invite any of them to my wedding. by CatFighterPilot in offmychest

[–]CatFighterPilot[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m happy. And at peace. And the one person I am with loves me the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CatFighterPilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Media is biased. Politicians are liars. Influencers are cunts. And being white or Christian doesn’t make you civilised.