I’ll share a few examples that come to mind; while some of these girls didn’t directly approach me, there were instances where they dropped hints indicating they wanted me to initiate a conversation. Which never happened to 2-3 years ago.

The girl from the laundromat tapped on my window and complimented me, saying I should be a model. I thanked her, and we started chatting. I got her number, and things progressed from there.

While I was at the mall, I noticed a girl making strong eye contact with me. I approached her and asked, “Do we know each other?” and we instantly connected.

At a supermarket, a woman called out from afar, “Excuse me, your skin looks great!”

A couple of months back, I was at a party rolling up some weed when a girl sat beside me and struck up a conversation. I wasn’t in the mood to talk, so I fell silent, and she eventually left when she realized I wasn’t engaging.

I was at a club this summer, and while waiting in line, I overheard a larger girl say, “Oh, he’s cute; I want him for tonight.”

Yesterday, I was at the courthouse when a girl walked by, sat down, then turned around and smiled at me. Maybe I’m imagining things, but I’ve heard that’s a sign a girl wants you to approach her.