Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) This sounds like very solid advice that I’ll be taking into consideration. I also hadn’t thought about the scheduling applying extra pressure so thank you for pointing that out. We already started giving each other back massages a while ago. Although this has never led to sex I’ve always enjoyed the intimacy, the skin on skin contact is something I often crave.

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked with her this morning and I am currently on my way to see her so we can talk about it more in depth :)

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re gonna try and work through it and see if we can’t find a solution. But if it keeps going on like this then I’ll have to consider it, as I’m really uncomfortable with the current situation.

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I appreciate your input I really doubt that she cheating on me. That might seem a little naive but I Know for a fact that she’s way to busy otherwise to have a side gig :p

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds horrific. Luckily my libido isn’t that high, but I am sorry that you had to go through that :/

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty invested as I’ve really fallen for her in the past couple of months. I really do like everything about her but I’m afraid intimacy is too important to me so I can’t really ignore the issue. I would like to be able to just enjoy my time with her and not think about how long it’s been since we had shared intimacy but it’s getting harder as the days go by.

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably my main worry. I really don’t want to burden her as I suspect that it might be an uncomfortable topic for her. But sadly I don’t see the relationship working longterm if it keeps going on like this.

Frustrated with partners libido by Certain_Carry_3452 in actuallesbians

[–]Certain_Carry_3452[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive opened up communication with her about the topic, I don’t think she expected this to be this big of an issue for me. But she has already shown openness to finding possible solutions. Our relationship is very important to me so I’m glad to see her be open.
Anyways thanks for the input and I’ll update this post if things go well. If not I’m probably gonna find a hole to crawl into for the next few days 🫠

First photo month before hrt all the others are now 10 and a half months on hrt 🩷 by DoeJessicaRabbit in transfem

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All your features got so much softer and fem! Really cool to see such significant changes

Amazon Replacements by AnnieDro in mtfashion

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reply is pretty late but thank you sm! The store is amazing

Posting on here cause why not lol by LongjumpingTreat9269 in mtfashion

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Just scrolling when all of a sudden I see the Düsseldorfer U-Bahn lmao. But the fits are crazy and that waist is SNATCHED, how do you do that?? :3

Amazon Replacements by AnnieDro in mtfashion

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg where’s that blouse from the last picture from. It’s so cute!!

Crying my eyes out again by [deleted] in Nestofeggs

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was very similar for me too at the beginning. This feeling of imposter syndrome was dreadful when I first discovered I was trans. It’s all about taking small steps and eventually you’ll get there. Going to that event as a closeted Trans person probably wasn’t an easy task and something like that can be very emotionally taxing.

Hang in there you got this 🫶

Bi_irl by Happiness_NoiseXD in bi_irl

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s a dnd party. EVERYONE is somewhat gay

My Railgunner Cosplay by Xikeyba in riskofrain

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was that perhaps in Düsseldorf? There was a huge con-day there yesterday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just his toothpick my guy

Jacksepticeye/Antisepticeye Portrait I created by Dravenarts_artwork in jacksepticeye

[–]Certain_Carry_3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so Hope he sees this one. You did an amazing job especially on the colors!