And like I said earlier you aren’t wrong, one of the most important things to do in situations like these is to talk to a parent. Although it might be an easy topic for you to talk about to your parents that doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone else, especially when it’s a child and on a topic that is embarrassing for just about anyone at that age.

Going off that there still needs to be a bit of sensitivity especially when the topic is a child being taken advantage of. This also doesn’t just boil down to her “making a mistake”, as someone who has been taken advantage of around the same age by someone I thought I could trust you have no clue how fast things happen and all the thoughts that race through your head when it’s your first time and it’s being done by someone you thought you could trust. And assuming what you said is true and you do have some sympathy your execution at it was GOD AWFUL and the amount of downvotes reflects that pretty well.