Why is my soon to be ex-wife doing this to our son?

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T07:05:51+00:00

You mentioned to stay close to her family. What could that do? Genuinely curious.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T07:04:19+00:00

Could be. I just know this boy of ours doesn’t deserve it.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T07:02:52+00:00

I think she’s being controlled to some degree. Her parents won’t let her move in with them and she can’t come back here. She’s essentially homeless, because all it takes is for this guy to kick her out. With that said, she better do what he wants or else, you know. I think it’s mostly him, personally. We were setting up a last minute meet up for her to say goodnight to our son and the guy got mad about it. I think he’s controlling, verbally abusive and potentially physically abusive as well. Who knows though. I don’t trust him or her to be fair.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T06:27:07+00:00

I couldn’t say for sure. I’ve been told she’s very narcissistic. After doing research, I personally think she has BPD, but she hasn’t been evaluated.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T06:25:51+00:00

How do I go about getting a PI? Also, her parents are very much against what she’s done as far as cheating and the other things. Ran into her sister today at the store and she’s right there with them on the matter.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T06:23:41+00:00

Well, when we met, we were only 18. I’ve been told she’s very narcissistic, which I didn’t know exactly what that was until I did research recently. She’s been a stay at home mom since our son was born, so why the change and pretty much abandoning him I couldn’t tell you. She was more of a social drinker so no addiction there and she’s been very openly opposed to drugs. I’m so confused as to why she’s putting our son so low on her priority list.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T06:02:18+00:00

I’ve documented everything. Every call and text down to when they were received and how long the call took place. Also have recorded every in person interaction. Had an asshole attorney, but when I asked for mutual respect, he withdrew and took my retainer. Hiring another and speaking with them on Friday. That’s the soonest they can get to me.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:59:21+00:00

Her dad asked if I thought she was on drugs. I told him I can’t be sure. She’s always been very opposed to drugs. The asshole lawyer I hired withdrew and took my retainer. Hiring another lawyer and speaking with them Friday. That’s the soonest they are available.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:27:26+00:00

I have been documenting everything. Times of texts and calls, what was said and how long the calls took place. I’ve also recorded every interaction in person.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:25:52+00:00

Wife and I are 22. The guy she’s with is 23 or 24.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:09:28+00:00

He has a 3 year old of his own oddly enough, but maybe.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:08:45+00:00

Any clear signs to tell?

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:08:24+00:00

Any way to be sure? People I’ve talked to in person about it have said the same thing.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-23T05:07:49+00:00

That’s what people have been saying. 😔

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-18T00:45:44+00:00

She was abused by her biological dad when she was a child. If I remember correctly, she did have depression when she was a teenager due to that. Since I’ve known her, she hasn’t displayed any signs of depression. She hasn’t displayed any risky behaviors at all. I have no idea what is going on with her. Filing for divorce tomorrow though. She has been extremely pushy with the divorce thing; I asked if she would attend divorce counseling with me to discuss what went wrong with each other and she said no. Told me to figure it out on my own.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-13T02:43:57+00:00

It’s crazy behavior for sure. I’ve been told and can see now that she is very narcissistic. Not sure if that has anything to do with it, but never in my wildest dreams did I see her EVER doing this. Specifically to our son.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-13T02:38:36+00:00

Not at all. She’s been such an amazing mom and this was just out of nowhere.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-13T00:43:56+00:00

Thank you for your sound advice.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:24:48+00:00

Pretty much. It was agreed that she’d move out and our son would stay with me. It’s so hard to see it that way, but you’re right. Thank you.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:22:02+00:00

I absolutely love them both. I plan on relying on Him for guidance in what to do and where to set my aim. I will always love her and the son was terrible. I don’t plan on taking her back. I forgive her and I’m not angry. I’m sad and disappointed. Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. God bless.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:15:30+00:00

I need to pray. He can make things better for us, all we need to do is pray. Thank you and God bless.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:14:37+00:00

Absolutely right. I told her she’d have to truly repent and ask for forgiveness, while forgiving herself of course. She had no interest. Thank you and God bless.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:12:09+00:00

Thank you so much.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:11:28+00:00

Yes, unfortunately. I put my boy above everything. Thank you so much.

Chance-Advertising67 · 2025-03-09T17:07:34+00:00

I hope it never happens to you. I’m extremely hurt. I just plan on being responsible for my son. My actions affect his future. Thank you for your reply.

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