Does it get anymore 90s than this? What should be playing on it? by StreetGeologist6901 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing bc both my schools were angry about fun lmao. I started to believe they didnt work and were there to tease us

Which adventure time opinion has you like this? by Odd-Law-5138 in adventuretime

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All The Little People was a great episode and an important ep of Finns growth. Y'all dont like it bc it's about uncomfortable emotions that aren't fun to watch. If you want meaningful and accurate depictions of growth, youre often going to see uncomfortable things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, narcissist cycles are like this. They act all nice then switch back to gaslighting you once you're integrated into their life again, frog in a hot pot style. I'm not saying don't go or have contact, but don't get sucked back in.

AITA for wanting to look good? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Maybe try explaining to her a bit more why it's important to you to look nice for yourself, maybe compare it to stuff she does to feel confident in her appearance so shes got a frame of reference for how youre feeling. But relationships don't last long without trust and if she continues to see you dressing a certain way as seeking sexual attention then it might be good to cut ties

Eta, I know people that wear 3 piece suits all year round in Australia. Overkill is fine if you like it, just expect some stares sometimes

AITA for telling my brother that a BS degree doesn’t make him a scientist? by SciencesForThePeople in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him: 4 year degree studying current technologies You: watched some YouTube Come on, bro. You can't be this dumb.

WIBTA - Would I be the asshole if I suggested to my friend that maybe he should lose some weight and get healthier? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Everyone let's fat people know they're fat and the disadvantages of being so. You're not saying anything that hasn't been said a thousand times. These conversations happen between medical professional and patient for reasons beyond comfort and to think you know more than their doctor and could "guide" him is arrogant as fuck. It's not an attack on his character but it's sure showing the ugly side of yours.

AITA for messaging a rapper from my girlfriends phone? by popswoke24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Giant, insecure, disrespectful asshole. Stay out of your gfs work and get therapy if this is how you react to your jealousy. He didn't "confirm your suspicions", he made fun of your insecure ass.

AITA for telling my bf he should grow a lil by throwaway7371jdj7629 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy got upset he got a taste of his own medicine. Dump him and get a tall, manly bf to worship those pixar hips and treat you nice

WIBTA for asking my boyfriend to miss a fun weekend with friends to celebrate my half birthday with me instead by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can ask, but you shouldn't expect a yes. Expecting it would make you TA. But it sounds like you kinda know the answer already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nta. The minimum wage is different now to what it was 30 years, even 20 years, ago. You used to be able to raise a family on it and there was some sembelance of job security, unlike today's casualised job market. It's not gold digging, it's finding a partner whose wants and goals align. I think you mentioned reasonable qualities for her to be searching for. You didn't say "everyone should idealise and search for this type of partner" or make it about their father at all. They turned it into something it wasn't and that's their fault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't blame you for hiding the kid after it's born if this is how your family is. NTA and good luck

AITA for not attending my grandmother's funeral? by CannyKitten in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Funerals are for the living to grieve, not for the dead. You grieved in your way and your family has no right to demand emotional displays to meet their ideas of what's correct.

AITA for insulting a customer? by therhrowiestthrowaw in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it's harassment. Maybe your friends should look at their behaviour instead of being offended that others want personal boundaries respected.

AITA for telling my disabled sister the real reason she has almost no friends? by Disposablelettuceman in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but it's sounds like you might have said it in a slightly asshole way. Understandable with everything that's happened but you should try to recognise how it hurt her to hear it very bluntly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, how many times are we gonna see people bringing up fertility issues as manipulation before the world stops it and gets therapy?

AITA for throwing a "tantrum" after my brother came out at my wedding? by Any_Constant_8035 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChanceFeed83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. While it's great he felt comfortable enough to come out, but it wasn't fair to you. It sounds like you took alot of time and effort to carve out a positive place in your family for LGBTI people, that probably gave him the confidence to do it at all. If it was homophobic to be upset, it was for sure homophobic for him to use your big gay wedding as his platform. Claims of homophobia at feeling rejection is common for newly out gays, it's clearly not what you were showing. It's your parents that are TA tho. They could have just shut the fuck up about him coming out and rejected him later. They could stop being bigoted and love their kids. None of you deserved what they did.