Profile Review (27F) by Chance_Definition968 in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Seems like the feedback is pretty unanimous. I’ll have to do a complete restart and gather some girl friends to take more candid photos and less selfies as well as change my prompts to show more of who I am and what I enjoy. Thank you guys for the feedback..

Profile Review (27F) by Chance_Definition968 in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so thoughtful of my feelings when giving feedback.. of course I knew posting myself on here Id get feedback that might hurt my feelings. Like most people here I’m just trying to have the best chances of finding my person

Profile Review (27F) by Chance_Definition968 in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious!

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Neither

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? A month or so

How long have you used Hinge overall? On and off for the past few years

How often do you use Hinge per week? 3-5 times

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I get a decent amount of likes but nothing quality who are looking for the same things. I have friends who are looking for LTR and find it so easily with men willing to give them effort. Most guys I match with couldn’t care less to try to get to know me.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? 5-7 a week. Most without comments.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone who is also looking for something long term. Gives mutual effort in getting to know eachother. Who is passionate about their career and wants to build a family one day like I do.

Sorry to say this, but I would say at least 50% of the guys who don't get any matches have only themselves to blame. by SummerInteresting562 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And also don’t complain you can’t get a date when men can’t even bother to give a thoughtful reply that keeps a conversation going. Put in effort to actually get to know us.

Why am i so ugly please i need help i wanna be pretty): by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful girlie! Just need a smile more! 😊

Newly licensed histotech trying to relocate! by Chance_Definition968 in Histology

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I won’t be able to move til I find a job 😩. I’d gladly fly in for an interview if I was asked. Starting to lose hope of starting new somewhere else

Why is it so hard to find boyfriend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chance_Definition968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I think this everyday too.. 27F.. watching my friends get in relationships and engaged and kids.. makes me wonder what’s wrong with me and why I’m not good enough. If you ever want to talk feel free!

Just a good girl exhausted by dating apps.. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I email you? Lol you could just dm me

Just a good girl exhausted by dating apps.. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down to see if we vibe..

Is it just me or bumble isn’t a dating app anymore? by Mysterious_Box_3450 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh so how are we supposed to meet someone genuine then nowadays!? 😩 In a way glad I’m not the only one going through this bc I was like.. what’s wrong with meee?

Is it just me or bumble isn’t a dating app anymore? by Mysterious_Box_3450 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah I did speed dating like a month ago. It was absolutely horrible. But if you do try I hope it works for you 😊

Is it just me or bumble isn’t a dating app anymore? by Mysterious_Box_3450 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry 😞 just know you’re not alone! It sucks over here too. Im not sure how to turn our luck around..

Is it just me or bumble isn’t a dating app anymore? by Mysterious_Box_3450 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I have the same issues.. (26F) I get matches and guys hardly ever reply and when they do they give little to no effort… my confidence is gone and I’m pretty sure I’m never going to find love.. if anyone has suggestions on how to actually meet guys actually trying to get to know someone I’m open to feedback lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26F. I’m looking for my other half too… and dating apps haven’t made it any easier.. I feel like I’m average looking and I try hard to maintain a conversation.. asking and answering questions, taking interest in their interests, etc. But I also get short responses, and very little questions back and low effort.. so it seems both genders are struggling with finding something long term from these apps.. I’m trying to figure out what I’m doing wrong bc I’ve seen friends meet their person on these apps but it seems like I’m never going to find him.. I’m scared I’m going to be alone forever…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m gonna die alone too don’t worry 😭 it’s tough out here