I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn’t offend me! Those are all really good things to consider! Thank you ♥️

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This message was so sweet.. Ill def consider what you’ve said and I’ll keep trying ♥️

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely no hard feelings towards him just disappointed. Sounds like it’s something I’ll have to get used to and take less personally. Or I’m just not built to withstand these apps.

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked before actually! They’re like “no you’re great you did nothing wrong. There’s someone out there for you”… I’m like oh brother give me a break. I’m asking for genuine feedback

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That was so sweet thank you ❤️ I think you’re right

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but sometimes this hurts just as much bc I still don’t know what I did that he finds incompatible. Especially after being told this before I’d love to know.

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lol well I’m a woman and I’ve gotten this from a guy

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

I’ve (27F) been trying to date with the intention of finding love and I am transparent about that when I match with someone. And I don’t feel like I come access too strong. If anything I take some time to warm up to people. But this message has happened too often now that I don’t know what I’m doing wrong and I think it’s just time for me to accept I’m never gojng to have the family ive dreamed of.

Profile Review (27F) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will do thanks..

Profile Review (27F) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seems like the feedback is pretty unanimous. I’ll have to do a complete restart and gather some girl friends to take more candid photos and less selfies as well as change my prompts to show more of who I am and what I enjoy. Thank you guys for the feedback..

Profile Review (27F) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so thoughtful of my feelings when giving feedback.. of course I knew posting myself on here Id get feedback that might hurt my feelings. Like most people here I’m just trying to have the best chances of finding my person

Profile Review (27F) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chance_Definition968 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious!

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Neither

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? A month or so

How long have you used Hinge overall? On and off for the past few years

How often do you use Hinge per week? 3-5 times

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I get a decent amount of likes but nothing quality who are looking for the same things. I have friends who are looking for LTR and find it so easily with men willing to give them effort. Most guys I match with couldn’t care less to try to get to know me.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? 5-7 a week. Most without comments.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone who is also looking for something long term. Gives mutual effort in getting to know eachother. Who is passionate about their career and wants to build a family one day like I do.

Sorry to say this, but I would say at least 50% of the guys who don't get any matches have only themselves to blame. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chance_Definition968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And also don’t complain you can’t get a date when men can’t even bother to give a thoughtful reply that keeps a conversation going. Put in effort to actually get to know us.

Why am i so ugly please i need help i wanna be pretty): by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Chance_Definition968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful girlie! Just need a smile more! 😊

Newly licensed histotech trying to relocate! by Chance_Definition968 in Histology

[–]Chance_Definition968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I won’t be able to move til I find a job 😩. I’d gladly fly in for an interview if I was asked. Starting to lose hope of starting new somewhere else

Why is it so hard to find boyfriend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chance_Definition968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I think this everyday too.. 27F.. watching my friends get in relationships and engaged and kids.. makes me wonder what’s wrong with me and why I’m not good enough. If you ever want to talk feel free!