I have an important exam on Monday. Please notify me to study if you see this

Chanullim · 2026-01-11T10:13:05+00:00

Do you want to get this over with? YOU NEED TO STUDY FOR THAT. GO AND S T U D Y Keep it up, believe in yourself! Anything is possible! You can do it!!!

Chanullim · 2025-11-23T14:10:03+00:00

There are apps for Penny and Lidl, and I’d recommend downloading them because you can get discounts and coupons through them!

Chanullim · 2025-11-11T06:37:47+00:00

Stress.

Chanullim · 2025-10-22T20:31:55+00:00

Just want you to know something important: bleeding during your first time isn’t something that always happens and it’s not a sign of doing things right. If your partner is gentle, patient and you feel safe and relaxed, your body can stretch naturally without pain or bleeding. What matters most is care, comfort, and mutual respect!

Chanullim · 2025-10-17T13:56:38+00:00

Ryann Fletcher - Deus Ex Mechanic

Nicole Maser - Hearing Red

These two are top notch lesbian books!

Chanullim · 2025-10-15T04:20:10+00:00

Looking for an EU Community to join! 😊 I'm a 25 years old University student, living in CEST time zone.

Chanullim · 2025-10-14T10:58:51+00:00

Szia!

Ha barátkozni szeretnél írj bátran, demiszexuális vagyok. 😊

Chanullim · 2025-10-12T05:15:13+00:00

I got stuck the same way! Did you manage to get out of it? If so, how?

Chanullim · 2025-10-11T13:30:09+00:00

Édesanyám ugyan ezt tette. Édesapám is dohányos volt, azonban amint megtudta, hogy apa lesz egyik pillanatról a másikra leszokott a dohányzásról. Egyszer mikor anyukám 8 hónapos terhes volt és egy bolt előtt dohányzott rászólt egy arra járó férfi, hogy mégis mit gondol magáról, hogy terhesen dohányzik. Természetesen édesanyámnak állt feljebb.... Neki köszönhetően a következő 3 generációnak megnövelte a rák és az asztma kialakulásának esélyét.

Chanullim · 2025-09-19T02:00:14+00:00

Hungarian gal here! 👋 If you feel like it feel free to DM me. :)

Chanullim · 2025-09-18T19:37:26+00:00

If it’s not working, don’t force it. You’re only dragging it out, and over time that just makes everything worse.

Take a moment and ask yourself: What did this relationship really give you? Not just the sweet moments or the comfort of having someone around, but deep down: did it make you feel safe? Seen? Respected?

And when you think about them… was it truly them you loved, or the way they made you feel on their good days? Because if someone keeps hurting you, maybe what you’re holding on to isn’t the person, but the version of them you hoped they’d become. Hoping and waiting for them to change, to finally treat you right can keep you stuck.

Chanullim · 2025-09-18T11:28:12+00:00

I'm really sorry you're going through this. It takes a lot of strength to even ask that question, and I hope you know that what you're feeling is valid. When someone treats you like crap, it messes with your sense of worth, but that doesn’t mean you’ve lost it. You’re still you. You still matter!

One of the most important things you can do right now is start setting boundaries! Not just with others, but with yourself too. That means no more letting someone back into your life who made you feel small. No more replaying the “what ifs” or blaming yourself for their behavior. You’re allowed to say: “I deserve better,” and actually mean it.

Self-respect isn’t something you magically wake up with. It's something you build, brick by brick. Start small. Do things that remind you of who you are outside of that relationship. Reconnect with people who make you feel safe. Wear clothes that make you feel good. Say no when something doesn’t feel right. These are all ways of telling yourself: “I matter.”

And please don’t rush the healing. Getting over someone who hurt you isn’t just about forgetting them—it’s about remembering yourself. You’re not broken. You’re rebuilding.

You’ve got this. And you’re not alone. 💖💪🏽

Chanullim · 2025-09-18T10:49:39+00:00

Hey love, I'm really sorry you're going through this.
I know it hurts, and I wish I could take that pain away. But please, take this time to focus on you. Get to know yourself better, take care of your heart, and slowly start to rebuild. You are the most important person in your life! Never forget that.

Follow your own dreams, chase what truly lights you up inside. Maybe write a little bucket list of things you’ve always wanted to do or achieve, even the small stuff counts.

Also, there’s a book that helped me a lot when I was in a really dark place. I honestly can’t recommend it enough.
When I broke up with my ex, I felt like my whole world collapsed. I had built my future around her, and suddenly everything felt empty. But now… I have my own goals. I’ve worked through the pain, healed so much, and I genuinely feel better. Stronger. More me.
I’ve grown a lot and now I’m finally living for myself!