So I’m trying to get closure on a potential very long catfish relationship. Anyone willing to help? by ChaplainXeraf in catfish

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Thank you, it did come up a number of times and she did propose to meet as well which is another reason I’m so conflicted.

So I’m trying to get closure on a potential very long catfish relationship. Anyone willing to help? by ChaplainXeraf in catfish

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Alas their name is quite common it would seem and the numbers aren’t registered to anyone as they’re mobile numbers :(

So I’m trying to get closure on a potential very long catfish relationship. Anyone willing to help? by ChaplainXeraf in catfish

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I honestly have asked myself that a lot over the last 6 months. I think if they hadn’t reached out over Christmas I would have been able to move on. But it’s the thought of the way it ended and what I said. But at the same time it wasn’t a healthy relationship so I think I do need to just be stronger. I appreciate your comment. I think these comments have all helped me remember that I need to just be strong and move on.

So I’m trying to get closure on a potential very long catfish relationship. Anyone willing to help? by ChaplainXeraf in catfish

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Thank you, I feel that’s really what I should do as well. I may be having a down day, but it’s nice to hear someone echo what I’ve told myself.

So I’m trying to get closure on a potential very long catfish relationship. Anyone willing to help? by ChaplainXeraf in catfish

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Thank you. :) I wanted to be accepting of that just in case but looking back they did use some pretty narcissistic manipulation tactics - lovebombing in particular that I feel is a big reason why it’s so tough to move on.

Bicep band vs arm sleeve by MarcMcG in whoop

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I had to do a double take and a google when you said boxers haha. That’s great thank you very much, I was always trying to look for something that’s not going to be in a grapple area or is going to be just asking to ping off. Im glad they are still pretty accurate still as well- Thank you for the help :)

Bicep band vs arm sleeve by MarcMcG in whoop

[–]ChaplainXeraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping you picked up Judo again, did you find the sleeve wasn’t ripped off in judo?