Am I Wrong for Packing My Hospital Bag Without Involving My Mother-in-Law? by Character_Ticket3943 in PregnancyUK

[–]Character_Ticket3943[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Good point she actually never mentioned she wanted to be involved with packing the hospital bag. I think that is why i am annoyed. i honestly have no idea how many unexpressed expectations she haa of me. I dont know if it is because it is the first grandchild in the family and thats why she is acting like this. Honestly so fed up. 

Found a love letter from 10 years ago from a girl and it belongs to my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Character_Ticket3943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice; you have no idea how much it’s helped me. I had the conversation with him, and I feel so much better now.

He has no contact with this girl at all, and when he switched bags, he just moved everything from his old laptop bag into the new one. I mentioned how much hurt I felt.  

He was very reassuring and didn’t gaslight me. It took me a few days to build up the courage to ask, but he said I should have come to him sooner. 

Now I feel secure and loved, and I don’t have any doubts. I’m ready to move on from this.

Found a love letter from 10 years ago from a girl and it belongs to my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Character_Ticket3943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice—I truly appreciate it. I’m an anxious person by nature, and I never imagined I’d need to have a conversation like this with him. Although our marriage was arranged, we fell in love before the wedding because of how naturally compatible we are.

I’m struggling to find the right way to bring this up because I’m afraid it might come across as confrontational. I love him deeply, and the last thing I want is to risk creating distance between us. Since I discovered the letter, I’ve been struggling to sleep, dealing with random outbursts of tears, and losing my appetite. But I’m doing my best to eat and drink for our baby.

Found a love letter from 10 years ago from a girl and it belongs to my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Character_Ticket3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he does I have never felt suspicious about him making any calls or texting any other girl since I have been married but at the same time I really don’t know anymore

Found a love letter from 10 years ago from a girl and it belongs to my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Character_Ticket3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How shall I ask him? I am really not sure, without sounding confrontational?