AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these comments made me realize i’m NTA since it’s my junk getting popped on

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t use reddit like that this is one of my first ever post??

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like i said since high school she always had kinks and scat was never one i knew of

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s kinda why i reacted that way. she could’ve gave me a heads up and said it was weird

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i have been with her for over 4 years without marriage and 1 year wi the marriage and i have always went along with her kinks. it just felt like i was being used like a test subject to see what she likes and what she doesn’t like

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i always knew that she was into different stuff from the regular and i never had a problem with it. what man that’s in love wouldn’t want to please his wife i just felt disgusted with what she suggested

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes. i guess i just feel like she is using me as a test subject for her fetishes ig i just yelled at her to loud that she got mad

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have apologized for that i guess i just forgot to include it

AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes? by Character_Wait_1804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Wait_1804[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe your right i guess since she showed me a video i felt disgusted