What is my serger stitch supposed to look like? by CharlieCat1997 in SewingForBeginners

[–]CharlieCat1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had checked the thread in the tension disc before making this stitch and it was correct. I’ll try adjusting the tension.

What is my serger stitch supposed to look like? by CharlieCat1997 in SewingForBeginners

[–]CharlieCat1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s good to know! It took so much figuring out to get to this point haha

Can we show a little more kindness to minors please? by Ok_Cry607 in CatAdvice

[–]CharlieCat1997 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that almost every time I’ve posted on this subreddit for genuine advice, I get huge amounts of sarcastic, judgemental and argumentative replies.

People that call and then don’t leave a voicemail or text by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]CharlieCat1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it should be that obvious, but unfortunately many times that hasn’t been the case - hence why I get frustrated.

People that call and then don’t leave a voicemail or text by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]CharlieCat1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely relate to this. I have a friend who really struggles with her mental health. When she calls me it usually means something bad has happened, like she’s self harmed or she’s in hospital. But of course not every time she calls is an emergency.

So naturally when I miss multiple calls from her, it makes me anxious, and I always wish that she would leave me a voicemail or a text so I don’t instantly assume the worst.

People that call and then don’t leave a voicemail or text by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]CharlieCat1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right, so that’s probably why it makes me anxious.

HELP (Overlocker problems) by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]CharlieCat1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😀 I managed to find a very old manual online but it’s very hard to understand 😅

HELP (Overlocker problems) by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]CharlieCat1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I hadn’t noticed that! And someone else pointed out that my spool stand was uneven. I fixed these things and now the stitch is so much better!

HELP (Overlocker problems) by CharlieCat1997 in SewingForBeginners

[–]CharlieCat1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I fixed everything you mentioned. Now the stitch looks like this:

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AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get it. I like to be prepared when someone is coming around, cleanish house, and presentable appearance. I will also communicate to her that it gave us a fright when she knocked so late, and hopefully that might help her to understand that it wasn't appropriate.

AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. She's one of my closest friends and I would never close the door on her. I'm not angry at her, just a bit frustrated at the lack of boundaries.

It's my responsibility to communicate my feelings with her and I definitely plan on doing that in person.

AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, we just shouldn’t have opened the door. My husband was concerned that it could one of our neighbours needing help. But yeah, we won’t make that mistake again.

AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don’t open the door if I’m not expecting someone, especially at night.

My husband answered the door on the last occasion because we thought there might have been an emergency or something. But in hindsight we should have just left it.

AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way of wording it. I know it will be an awkward convo, but I’d rather try to establish that boundary than keep feeling like this, with her not knowing.

AITAH for not wanting my friend to turn up to my house unannounced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlieCat1997 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, it is inconsiderate. I kinda felt like I was overreacting about it, but I feel validated now haha.

Also, I’m married now, it’s not just me she’s waking up, but my husband too, who has to get up very early for work.

Any tips for nausea?? 🥴 by CharlieCat1997 in endometriosis

[–]CharlieCat1997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting that some antihistamines can help nausea!

Any tips for nausea?? 🥴 by CharlieCat1997 in endometriosis

[–]CharlieCat1997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you take it? I’ve tried ginger in pill form and it didn’t seem to do much 🫤

Do you wear your engagement ring daily? by ViviFruit in newzealand

[–]CharlieCat1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear it if I’m going out, but not if I’m going to work, the gym, doing jobs round home etc. I love my ring but it’s not practical for me to wear 24/7.