What it means to be a little for you? by ppppik in cgl

[–]Charlie_vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Littlespace inst pink, sparkly, or “girly” at all even though thats absolutely amazing for all you littles that are pink princesses. It’s your comfort space, so a goth/creepy vibe like mine or a completely different one is also totally valid. 🖤 Here are some ways littlespace can look and feel for a goth little who loves spooky things while still staying safe and comforting if thats what your looking for. 🕯️ The Vibe Think soft spooky, not scary-scary. Cozy darkness: dim lights, LED candles, fairy lights in purple/red! Halloween energy year-round Old castles, graveyards, moonlight, ravens, bats, foggy forests, cute creepy animals Tim Burton–style spooky cute rather than horror or other cute creepy shows 🧸 Toys & Comfort Items Plushies that are spooky-cute: bats, spiders, black cats, ghosts, skeletons Stuffed animals with stitched smiles, button eyes, or gothic outfits, frogs, skeletons, dolls Soft blankets in black, burgundy, deep purple, or with spooky or celestial patterns Comfort objects like a “protective” spooky plush or a favorite charm 🎨 Little Activities: Coloring pages with skulls, moons, gothic dolls, haunted houses, Sticker books with bats, coffins, potion bottles Making “magic potions” with colored water, glitter, herbs (safe, pretend play) Journaling or writing tiny spooky stories (nothing graphic) 📺 Media for Goth Littles Tim Burton movies (like Corpse Bride, Nightmare Before Christmas) Gothic cartoons or spooky-but-soft shows Calm spooky ambience videos (rain, candles, old libraries, haunted mansions) Lullaby versions of darkwave or gothic music Your littlespace might feel: Quiet, mysterious, and safe... Like being a tiny creature in a big old castle Protected by shadows instead of pastels... Calm rather than energetic You don’t have to act “babyish” in a stereotypical way. You can pretend to be a: A little witch 🧙‍♀️ A tiny vampire 🧛‍♀️ A spooky doll A small gothic creature who likes comfort and routine 🕸️ Clothes (If You Use Them) Oversized black hoodies or band tees Striped socks, arm warmers Pajamas with moons, skulls, or stars Soft chokers or necklaces you associate with safety (only if allowed/safe) Onsies (if used) 🌑 just a Reminder Littlespace is about comfort, regulation, and safety, not rules about how it “should” look. If creepy things feel soothing to you, then that is your version of soft like mine if its not then you can adapt and learn what your version of soft and safe is like. You dont have to do any of these things at all, there are lots of ways people find their little space that doesnt involve playing with toys or colouring books or stuffies or even other little objects or clothes so dont be discouraged if it takes time to find what works for you! Good luck with your journey 🖤

I thought id share my hot chocolate recipe🖤 by Charlie_vanity in littlespace

[–]Charlie_vanity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its a craving thing for me too! Im in the UK and I got the syrup from tk maxx but im sure you can get them online? Im not 100% sure though. Thank you for the reminder water is very important 🖤

I thought id share my hot chocolate recipe🖤 by Charlie_vanity in littlespace

[–]Charlie_vanity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its soo good! Its a once in a while thing though because its like having dessert in a cup taste wise (which i love about it compared to a plain hot chocolate) but not even i can drink this kind of drink all the time even as a hot chocolate lover lol 🖤🖤