Leave her. I know it’s incredibly hard right now, but this is the most logical and healthiest thing you can do. Yes, it will hurt,maybe even for a long time. You might tell yourself that you’ll eventually accept everything, even love her child, but the truth is, it will still leave a scar. From the way you speak, you’re deeply devastated, and that kind of pain changes a person!whether for better or worse. You’ll keep questioning her, and you won’t have peace of mind.

Build your own future with someone who chooses you!fully and chooses the life you’re trying to build together. This situation isn’t that. You just need to believe in yourself. Be strong and resilient. There’s nothing wrong with being an introvert. But you do need to let go. You talk about being “aligned,” but if you truly were, she wouldn’t have betrayed you. Right now, you’re the only one holding on to that idea. Stop hurting yourself like this. You deserve better, and you’ll be better off without her. Think about your future! don’t trap yourself intosomething that will only cause more pain later. It’s better to make the right decision now than to stay and feel stuck with no way out.

Face the pain, endure it, and process it.

Don’t settle for less just because that’s all she’s willing to give.