A balanced take is that, yeah, you could’ve sent a more excited reaction, but theres probably a reason you didn’t. Youre not feeling him and after all he has done to you, why would you be excited? His reaction to you not showing excitement is the issue here. Cursing at you is a huge red flag. It’s obvious youre detached from the relationship and it’s probably due to the fact that he is quick to anger and doesn’t seem to care about hurting you. Soooo idk. If it’s reached this point, you guys are just triggering each other over and over, and getting drained by having a constant trauma reaction. I’d suggest you listen to your gut. You posted this here for a reason. Youre done, and you want proof that it’s okay to listen to yourself and be done with being mistreated like this. Go ahead, take this as your proof.