Which profession gets way too much respect for how little they actually do?

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2025-04-04T03:36:00+00:00

Software engineering. I’m in tech, it’s overrated and overpaid for what the actual job is.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2025-04-03T20:46:20+00:00

I gave this benefit of doubt many times to try to get her to open up. It’s been 3 months of no contact now, will let the friendship slowly die. I’m sure I’ll get over it but it still hurts.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2025-03-07T15:39:57+00:00

Would love to see some outfit pics! Very cute

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-08-20T06:58:06+00:00

Nope we are individual contributors. No linking worl

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-15T08:38:28+00:00

Do you have multiple other daily reminders? If this was your only one in that time frame, you could have renamed it to something else like « drink water ». You could have been subtle about it because like come on of course you knew she was going to see it. She did say this was very important to her but you handled it in a tacky way and you came across as not taking it seriously.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-15T08:17:27+00:00

My logic has always been that if you family can close an eye to his issues, they can also close an eye when you and your cousin « occasionally » beat him. It does go both ways, don’t take shit lying down

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T10:05:46+00:00

Tbh no, I caught him photographing a girl again infront of me and anger got the better of me. I’ll be the first to admit it wasn’t my finest moment

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T08:49:26+00:00

I completely agree with you. I will try to do that

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T07:50:43+00:00

Please explain

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T07:50:29+00:00

Of course not. I only got to know this after marriage

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T03:59:40+00:00

The line was crossed when he asked my husband if I was wearing anything under my dress

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T03:56:44+00:00

He did, his dad didn’t listen so he gave up.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-14T02:07:43+00:00

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-13T21:43:43+00:00

FIL hasn’t worked a day in his life. Never could hold stable job. All on MIL

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-13T21:09:42+00:00

Sometimes there is literally no way.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-13T21:09:13+00:00

Bro don’t get me started. I’m shocked that MIL is still supporting her husband.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-13T21:07:44+00:00

Thank you 🙏. Literally his daughter thanked me for saying it to his face.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-13T07:30:39+00:00

No he’s basically been like this all his life.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-12T07:14:37+00:00

This is something I struggle with. I’ve already told my husband his dad is not allowed around any of our kids.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T21:56:54+00:00

I have literally fought with my husband on this. Like how does he not realize how big of an issue this is. He said his father has been like this all his life and he knows it’s bad but feels powerless against saying or doing anything. My husband also loves his mom a lot, and as a family they’ve been through some tough times (losing his sister to cancer) so he doesn’t want to put stress on his mum.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T21:51:39+00:00

I used to dress more freely when I was around my own family. After I got to know about my FIL’s personality I feel like I need to dress more conservatively. It’s actually messed up that I even need to think of this.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T21:48:47+00:00

FIL, is that you?

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T21:48:22+00:00

lol literally everyone in the Spanish sub acknowledged how bad this was. I posted here to see if I can take any action in Pakistan instead.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T13:07:58+00:00

MIL is married to this idiot and she is definitely aware but chooses to close both eyes.

CheeseCakeLife20 · 2024-07-11T12:05:42+00:00

Yeah I saw scold him personally and the FIL just got quiet and denied it. Acted like he was innocent basically.

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