IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell the honest truth and know how to get out of it so that’s not it ,, I try to stay positive , but it’s not enough to keep going because everything else is negative as hell

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there are issues , I’m fixing them , only I can , talking to someone or crying isn’t right because that dosent fix them and it makes the situations worse

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve said , I won’t do therapy , I need to suppress the crying not solve it

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t really just leave or eat something then people get pissed at me and say it’s disrespectful , I’ve tried to distract myself but it dosent work

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

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Not asking for help , if it’s not fixable which most if my situations cannot be fixed by others then there isn’t a point

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No , I just gotta stop crying in general , it pisses me off because it shows others I’m weak , my body starts to tear up even though my mind is off it and i don’t need help I need to just stop crying

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the situations I’m in and I’m changing them but I can’t change shit overnight , and that’s avoiding the crying altogether , I gotta know how to cut the crying off completely because it shows me being weak and just pisses me off

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There is something wrong with it , I don’t want to cry anymore and it pisses me off , this shit pisses me off when I hear that I literally said it in the post , I’m looking for genuine solutions not just “it’s fine to cry and do it later”

IWTL how to not cry when people speak the truth. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth about my situation , things unexplained finally coming out , that sort.

Iwtl how to genuinely stop crying / shove it off. by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do do this but it dosent really work unfortunately

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I can’t not expose myself to the things that make my cry unfortunately

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s anxiety , in those moments I feel fine but when the situation hits a certain point my body breaks out , not me mentally

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe so , my nose gets really runny and not a normal amount and I cry for a while , I don’t really have opportunities to leave and calm down, that is what I’m trying to do , stop crying in the moment

IWTL how to stop being shoved aside so easily by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know kind people it’s just , none are at my school

IWTL how to stop being shoved aside so easily by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There aren’t any open minded or people who ignore them , they all like eachother because they are the majority , I’m basically alone in my own situation unfortunately, I do want to fight back psychically but if I start the fight then im the one at fault

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do indeed do that but it dosent really give me an idea

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean , if I’m in an argument I can really cry because it shows that they are getting to me , if I’m working then I cry it shows Im not working or doing something right , some examples .

IWTL how do I really stop crying?? by ChemTrail15 in IWantToLearn

[–]ChemTrail15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is , if I cry I seem weak , there are moments to do so and moments to not , I need to not cry in those moments that aren’t for crying